I have been drinking so bear with me and feel free to paraphrase any questions into a more legible state.

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I have finally thought about my successes and failures and I think all PUAs have a type. For example I could only muster opening one set this evening. In theory the most attractive women were out, the cheerleaders and popular girls (fuck i sound american) alas not a single one appealed to me and I have the sneaking suspicion I appealed to non of them either.

They are a different type of women they are value blackholes and actively crave validation. They don't even seem to have fun with the people they are with. The guys that do well are juiced jocks who take going caveman to a new level. I saw a guy pick up a random girl (literally not pua style) push her against a wall and pretend to fuck her. I am not sure but I am guessing these are not good people to be trying to hit on/learn from. I think I should write off wednesdays at my town.

So guys whilst I recognise this has elements of rantage, do you think you have a type (loosest possible sense) and do you think others do?


Feel like I should mention my type;
-must be happy in their own life (not need validation from the outside)
-Must enjoy travelling/be ambitious/adventurous

it continues but if any girl has either one of these missing I will practically see them as a man in a club situation.

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There are no different types of women, only bad depth perception in men. Just because she likes rap and I like classic rock doesn't mean we both don't like it rough. My type of chick is a sexy one. Sounds like the chicks at these parties just don't know how to be treated by a real man (meaning if they're not having fun, you need to show them how). Start pea cocking and learn how to dance, create relationships other than the sexual one these cavemen are giving, girls like something out of the ordinary, not weird but they notice guys who act different, especially the ones who are confident being different. If you do the same thing as everyone else she's not going to pick you when theres a jock/upgrade doing the same thing, even if you do, do it better.

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Here's the type of girls...

Fat Girl = Means a big girl that requires an elephant gun.

Ugly Girl = In the same category as Fat Girl. These girls may not be fat, but it hurts to look at them.

Average Girl = They don’t hurt your eyes, but they aren’t amazing enough to attract your eyes. Average girls are the plain Janes.

Cute Girls = Often, they are innocent average girls whose innocence makes them cute. They are a bit picky about who they end up with as they are inexperienced.

Very Attractive = Great curves, long luscious hair, nice everything. These women know they are very attractive and sometimes narcissistically wear outfits to reflect it.

Very Beautiful = Bombshell. Every guy will notice this girl and stare and gawk. You know one of these women are around by seeing the satellites of boys trying to be ‘friends’ with them. Most guys fear these magnificent creatures.

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There are also:

Materialistic Girls - They are all about what they and you own materially ans it is all about showing off for them.

Gold Digger Girls - They are like the Materialistic Girls, but are more into the money than anything else as they love being spoiled. These girls tend to be the ones that want the sugar daddies and what have you. As they will only stay as long as you have the money. But once its gone they are gone.

Personally, i think, jaybot, you are giving yourself an excuse as to why you only approached once.

its a classic line:
"shes not pretty enough, shes not my type, shes not my style, shes not this or this or this....so im going to be a chicken shit and validate this as a reason not to talk to her"

but wait, if shes not your type, why would your first reaction be to approach her in order for you to classify her and not being your type. It happens to the best of us when our confidence is down. bottom line you where attracted, but came up with an excuse in your own mind to back out of the deal, to stay in your comfort zone.

Thing is, how can you be a fun, exciting guy that people want to hang around with, if your not fun and exciting. The moment your dream girl walks through the door, are you going to be on top of your game to get her? doubt it, why? because you only approach when your balls drop. I may sound harsh, but my intentions are for you to realize for yourself what your doing, but dont worry many others have done it before you and will continue to do it after.

So...instead of watching people, go out and enjoy yourself, talk to the people you dont think you would be interested, the unattractive, shy, lonely girls, the energetic, social fun girls...its all experience, and in this game, the more experience the better the results.

as for the male behavior, do you know what spurred that response? The level of relationship these two people have, the vibe or energy between them? this all plays a part.

there was a party at my apartment once, when i lived next to the gulf. This HB9 was being rude, i told her if she did not cool down i would help her cool off by tossing her in the bay. She called my bluff, i picked her up on my shoulder, walked her to the bay knee deep and dropped her, walked off. When she came back in, i handed her a towel, told her she could grab a show and i would throw the cloths in the wash as long as she was respectful. The cloths never made it to the wash at first, reason being was i ended up in the shower with her.

I dont recommend running around tossing the ladies fully clothed into water, it just goes to show, that some behavior may seem outlandish, but with the right circumstances behind it, the people involved understand it.

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see thats something I thought people would think but on certain nights in certain clubs I never get results. So tried to think why this might be (baring in mind I get results on different nights).
But yar I can do the same amount of approaches when I get results on another night but certain club nights that I hit I can approach all night and get blown out time after time.
I am getting alright results now so am looking to pick at any weakness I can find. And picking up from different social groups is a big one.

So yar think about it guys is there a crowd you do better with than others. And be realistic if you go to the same place every night every week then please don't comment. I personally try to hit as many different clubs and nights as possible, does anyone else?

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the hardest part of when you begin, is staying consistent. When i started out, i would find my consistency was horrible. So what i would do, on a given night when the results where not what i wanted, i would start conversations with anyone, more so the less attractive girl, not only for social proof, but because it boosted my confidence in myself to go back over more attractive or different types of people.

Now i enjoy meeting people, just to meet them.

To me, it sounds you are focused more on the results and less on the process and situation. Never worry about the outcome, worry about a solid base that becomes consistent. take a step back and evaluate yourself every night you go out, after find the places you where stuck on for that given night. replay it in you mind, figure out what was different then the more successful times. adapt, change and grow. its all you can do.

As for me, the last city i was in, i had three main spots and a couple that i would visit on occasion. My main spots, if someone came in that did not know me, seen me being social with everyone. that i was friends with the bouncers, bartenders, staff and owners. instant social proof. then i had the occasion spots where i would go to increase my network with people that wont see me as often.

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