The background information is i for some reason seem to be in the "LJBF" Zone. A girl of mine I have known since starting high school and she is a very smart and intellectual individual. As well as being hot. But it has been a roller coaster as from the beginning she showed interest and i must of screwed up in the aspect of getting somewhere very quickly. Cause she gave me the whole "i think we should just be friends" conversation. A little background from recently is that we had fooled around once a while back and ever since then she has been very insecure about it ever since. She usually doesn't want to talk about it keeping it a secret and we were best friends at the time. But just this spring break i saw her and she gave me comments like "you look like a real man now" and even asked me "i missed you, did you miss me?" I screwed up and i said "ya........a lot" just to give a pause cause i didn't know what to say. The girl had one bf a while back that screwed up her view on relationships and like she has seemed open to me the most. Seeing as i am just starting out as a PUA i know i have a ways to go. I just want to try and break this "LJBF" zone she has created because i can tell somewhere she wants to be with me but is somehow scared. Plus she asked me to hang out a lot with her this summer. Now can anybody give me any suggestions or some background on what has happened and what needs to be done here to fix this. I would appreciate it. Thanks

you actually have a point when you said you have a feeling that she's into you (something like that). I'm guessing you guys haven't seen each other for quite some time before that meet-up right? you see, time can change a lot. her lines are giving you hints. just don't totally act the same way when you we're still in high school coz she might think you are still her same old best friend. Be nice, and be mature when approaching her but still make her feel secure when with you. hope that helps

ya we hadn't seen each other since June of last year. She just gave that off. I mean she fooled around with me which shows she has interest but is scared. I mean how can you change that tho? What i mean is how do you make her want a relationship?