Bitch Shield?What could it mean?



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PostPosted: Tue Apr 28, 2009 2:46 am 
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Hey there fellow PUAs

So this sunday I was with a group of friends at an art gallery with a couple of people that Ive never met before, overall about 15 ppl. Out of the group of people that i didnt know there was one HB that i think was decent that I might game. Before I could open her I noticed on multiple occasions she was checking me out. I played the eye contact game like a PUA and not a AFC but shortly after when I had the first dialogue with her I noticed that she was being a bitch to me and only to me. It was obvious that the bitch shield was only directed towards me and no one else in the group. Also it wasnt even as if I was obviously hitting on her on being an asshole whatsoever so I didnt see what her BS was for. What could her BS mean in this situation?

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 28, 2009 2:57 am 
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Take care of your body language, approach indrectly, in angle.

Probably it was your problem, you subcommunicated interest before her, a great error.

If Im wrong, maybe theres another deal here.

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Try to neg her? So you can get past it, the neg was invented for one reason and is to pass the bitchshield and come off as not interested in the first few minutes.

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Were you social that day? did you talk to Everyone? or just the people you already know and her?

I think she gave you a bitch shield because you were not congruent with your personality, therefore she had to test you. I had a feeling you did not talk to everyone, and so when you talked to her, she felt that your just some guy hitting on her and not a social guy.

I dont think indirect game would of saved you in this social scene. Being social would of saved you the Bitch shield.

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Weeneedhelp, from the posts I've read, tends to hit the nail on the head. Unless she has some deep and strange issues most human beings have no reason to be like that. It could have been a bad day for her, but I'm doubtful. She gave you the opportunity as you mentioned with the eye contact. I think, really, you just let her down. She sniffed you out. At times, I think it's best even when you wanna game a woman to just sit back and be you, especially in that type of sitatuation. Wait until the time comes then transition. By playing the crowd you were with you would have perked her interest more and then she'd be happy for you to transition. Patience is a virtue as they say haha. Hope it helps stud!


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PostPosted: Sun May 17, 2009 12:24 pm 
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Depends how she was doing it.

1. could have been doing it cause she liked you and was really shit testing you

2. Keeping eye contact etc with her made her realise you were interested, an thats when the bitchshield went up because she knew you were there to hit on her, an as she realised this before you talked shes thinks its just another asshole (afc's) tryna get in her knickers.

3. Maybe shes just tapped in the head,lol


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PostPosted: Wed May 20, 2009 2:35 am 
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I also depends on your non-reaction to her BS. Girls like to get a reaction by saying something fucked up to you (Shit Test). Be more confident then she is. And always have a neg on stand by to put her in check.

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PostPosted: Wed May 20, 2009 10:52 am 
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Hiya mate,

Dunno exactly what scene this is, but you say you didnt know too many people. So; did you play the room or go for the girl straight up? If you did you might have shown your intentions to clearly and might have lost some social proof points by not interacting with the crowd.


Also consider whether or not she was just S-testing you to see what your made of.

If after all she was being a bitch, neg and freeze her out. In some cases i acctually neg and start walking away to another group.

dont let her play you out man,
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