I'm gonna be straight up. This is my release.

I am 18 years old and from Florida. I'm decent looking, probably a 7 or 8 in most girls' opinions and I work out every couple days. I am athletic, smart, confident, and fun to be around most of the time. I know a lot of people at my school and am widely accepted, but I don't know very many people well enough to call them up/ for them to call me up.. to party.
I have also never gone in for a kiss or had a real girlfriend. YEP, YOU HEARD RIGHT. I HAVE NEVER EVEN GONE IN FOR A KISS. Mystery said that if you're not sure if you should kiss her or not, then you should definitely kiss her. I don't even think i've gotten to the point where I'm not sure or not. It is incomprehensible to me how I hear of all these stories about who has hooked up with who, both makeout session and sex... and I just wonder how this happens all the time when I haven't even done it once. I know I'm making a lot bigger deal out of this than it is, but it's a big deal to me because I'm going to college next year and I'm scared that the same things are not gonna happen.
For example, I am currently talking to a HB9. We have gone out on four dates. The last one we went out on, we played tennis. It was a fun game with a lot of energy and teasing. After we finished playing, I sat down on the bench, but she kept standing hitting tennis balls at me or w/e. Then she wanted to leave. When we got to the cars, she gave me a quick hug, got in her car, and drove off with me just sortof standing there. WTF? I felt like I didn't even have a chance to make a move. I feel like I'm missing something.


So go ahead, I'm done crying.
Here's your chance to give me a nice whollop in the ass. 'Cause I need it goddammit. (But while you're at it, some advice would be nice too :] )


jogii

If you have gone on four dates with her, then she wants to be kissed. Now you just have to kiss her. Don't wait for the perfect time or oppurtunity. Just kiss her when you want to. It's not a question of "is it okay to kiss her?". It's a question of "do you want to kiss her?". If so, lean your head in to her's and kiss her.