So you've opened, DHV, Neg, go Kino, but just no SOI. When to quit ? What's the trigger ?

There are a few schools of thought on this. One is to plow through and just keep negging, kino, and working it until you get statements of interest or more IOIs so that you know she is attracted and you can finally show interest back. This can be time consuming. Although persistence can work it is really not a great way to go about it in my opinion.

Something I remember reading from Sinn's Blog I think was "the enemy isn't the set that doesn't open, it's the 30 minutes you spend in a set that doesn't go anywhere." When you are out and working groups this is very true. You are wasting time in a set that isn't likely to work out. Better to go on to another set that you are feeling the "vibe" with and stay there.

If you have a set like that, in which you aren't going anywhere roll off and find another set that you are vibing with. When in doubt you can always leave and reopen later too see if they are more receptive. This can also produce results.

Hope this helps answer your question.

Jon

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Listen to Jsmooth, its good advice! No shame in leaving a set that sucks...

Still from what I read it seems that you forgot to pump the buying temperature. Make sure they are having fun, being seduced is supposed to be fun! And it will help you see IOIs since they are stronger.

Still it is difficult to say anything since your description is a bit limited...

Is she still sitting there interacting with you? That's the only IOI that I look for. Question: Why are you waiting for her to tell her that she likes you? Why not just tell her that you like her and what you want to do about it?