hey guys, as ive never kissed a girl before one of my problems when going out is that moment of when i should go for a k-close. my problem is i keep overthinking about it and on some nights sarging it holds me back from a good night out or when that moment could easily happen, i dont take it.

i know its a weird topic to talk about but, has anyone got any stories about there first kiss, or sarging k-closes and how to get past that feeling thats holding me back? im sure once ive kissed for the first time, afterwards will be a peace of cake and less stressful when going out for a k-close.

any help would be appreciated, this is just ruining my chances of playing the game.
thanks.

next time you're at a point of thinking "should i kiss her?" DO IT. whats the worst that could happen?



or if it helps use this k-close routine:

pua: "Let me see your hands"
hb: "okay"
pua: *moving the hands around 'guaging' them* "hmm...that's interesting....anyway [try to move back to previous topic]"
hb: "whaaat?"
pua: "oh um...." *lean in to her ear* "do you consider yourself spontaneous?"
hb: "yes/no"
pua: "lets see/let's fix that" *kiss*

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This is how I do it: After doing stuff with the girl I drive her home, before she gets out I do the direct method of asking her "Are you going to kiss me?" (If you know you gamed her right and she is interested in you) with a nice smile. And there you go. It works for me, had no problem with it. I tend to skip all the routines and just go in.

thanks for the replies guys, much appreciated, but im sorta stuck when im out in a club, or when im trying to practice day game. would be great to hear your first time experiences, as well as getting to that situation at a club (k-close) as quickly as possible. i really need to get rid of this somewhat 'fear' and get used to it, but getting to that stage seems to be difficult.

For me, if I was in a club I just do regular gaming and number close but never k-close unless I absolutely know the girl is really into me because what would happen if she said no to the k-close? Yeah it'll look bad.
Then after that, setup the date and just do what I said on the other reply and you should be all set

so your recommending that i should just go for number closes more the k-closes, especially as im really new to the game?

If you've got a good game going on, sure do the number closes and the k-closes even if you're new to the game. If not, just a number close is fine too.

yeh cheers dude, its tough trying to get over approach anxiety, sometimes im ok, other times i just stand there like a lemon. what was the experience like for you on your first attempt at getting a k-close? or were you one of the fortunate ones who were always lucky with the ladies, so kissing a girl, well..any random girl, came natural to you? be great to hear your story, i need all the help i can get! lol

same for anyone else who reads the post, please lemme know your first time stories and your experiences when you jumped the hurdles like a k-close, f-closes for the first time.

for me SPAM ive never done anything with a girl and im 21, so any help and exp would be great, but for me its just as helpful to hear other peoples stories besides reading all the stuff on this forum.

first thing you need to know, is that girls love to kiss.

All you have to do to k-close if you have the attraction, is think up something sort of cheesy but romantic too.

I was sitting next to this girl watching a movie at a friends and there was even other people in the room. It was dark though. We were cuddling and I whispered to her, "this movie is really awesome, but it doesn't compare to how awesome it is being with you" little pause and boom, big make out session.

What I said didn't take much brains to think of, but it doesn't have to. Once they are attracted its just giving them an excuse to kiss you.