How do you know when to stop pursuing a girl? If you call her and she doesn't answer and you leave a message on her machine, but she doesn't call back, what do you do? Do you try calling again or do you just forget about her?

I like being persistent - always better to receive an answer (for better or for worse) than no answer at all. Unfortunately, if a girl isn't responding at all, you don't want to push it so far as to be stalking her. Usually, I'll call, leave a message, and then a couple days later send a short text (a "hey what's up" sort of thing with a little C&F). If I don't hear back at all after that, it's probably time to move on. Almost all girls would notice a text or a missed call.

well ... id say. you stop pursuing a girl.. after the first 20 minutes of meeting her..

Assuming that you created enough attraction, gave her DHV, negged her a bit so she looks for your validation...

But if youre not sure about that happening, then you ask yourself, was she giving me lots of IOIs??.... Did she look attracted to me??... When i met her, was I negging her enough that she was looking for my validation??... DId she look crazy about me??.... then if those are a YES.. you continue.. call her.. lets say... 3 or 4 days after you met her... but CALL HER... make the first contact direct, dont use txt msg... better call her... if she doesnt answer.. now you can try sending her a msg the next day... if she doesnt answer... leave it like that.. and move on...

maybe, contrary to what all-american suggested... id say... if the first atempt on calling her, failed. then leave it like that... the desire of a result may have insidious effects in your game, inner frame and inner game.....

PLus,, youre a pre-selected man, remember?.. if she didnt take the bait.. some1 else will.. besides youre a high social demand person and dont have time to waste calling her until she answers... .

but try it using both aproaches ..

see what works best for you ...

take care ...

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