So a bit of history if u dont read my blog regulary, like most people I assume lol, but ur loss really, those who know me know im a good bloke to know.
Effectively my aim is to run boot camps and a pua college in the long term.
To do this effectively I have to know for once in my life, go out and look for guys....??
Yeah I know !!
I cant run a decent operation if im not working with people up to the same calibre as me. I need to be able to talk to those people like friends Ive known my whole life.
But.... None my friends are so afc they dont even know what that stands for or they tied down in a heavy ltr with alot of restrictions, or they just a bit boring / disinterested in sargin,
So... I know have to find a way of getting at least a few decent PUA's who are ony my level with my sort of drive.
Ive taken a good approach, once on the singles scene I decided my comfortable areas of reach would be where I live and where I work, so effectively I found the 2 guys who alpha in their individual haunts in my town and spat game with them. One is ready for it and hungry for it, the other I think isnt on my wave length that this is worth investing time and effort into.
Now this is where the first PUA only night starts. I decided I needed a lair effectively who could sarge with me around my work area in london as I know the area and where the talent is, just aint had the right company to fully work the environment.
Ive been on the boards a bit and been stiring up some interest, maybe 5/6 or so people Ive been in regular pm with chatting game, advice and tips etc. Out of everyone 2 people stood out;
Perrin + Cold darker
We were all in a similar boat, afc mates, clued up on our own aspects of the game to know finding a couple of similar minded lads to go out with better than the same old routine with ur afc hommies.
We organised our sarge to meet at liverpool st station about 5.30pm after I finish work. The idea was as a trio we would check what I consider to be the best talent magnet bars and clubs within walking distance of liverpool street station.
Perrin arrived about ten mins after me, we straight talking game and sussing eachother, we kind get the general assumption we both on the level and prior chats on the phone with both lads were mutually open and enjoyable either way. So then we forget bout eachother n start to discuss how ColdDarker gunna be when he gets here.
Fortunatly he rings within about 2 mins and comes strolling over, we start walking to our first bar,
6.pm - The Cuban -
http://www.thecuban.co.uk/
Not a full on sarge bar, but small and chic enough to attract enough nice lo oking people with the ability to still sit and have a conversation with friends.
Basically the cuban was just a good place to get to know eachother, go over wing techniques etc. The session also turned out to be what I consider probably the best outco me of the night. It becomes apparent that Karl is quiet honest and open about his complete approach anxiety and that its fucking him up. We discuss a few canned openers and Karls been throwing some good material at us mutually. Me and Perrin have kinda read the situation, eachother and the group dynamic and realised effectively we are there tonight to help Karl get over his approach anxiety.
This is blinding, not only do I have a wing who on my level and in the same total afc friendship circle situation as me, but effectively between the pair of us and the vast potential Karls been showing us with his lines routines and repeatois's we have a real teacher studen environment. We get to learn how to coach using our so far top notch methods and materi als and Karl gets our coaching, tutoring, enthusiasm, knowledge base, dedication, loyalty, respect, encouragement, help, answers, challenges..... the list of things between me and perrin as a pair of tutors is exponential, after a whole night of sarging we still been on the phone until I hung up at 4a.m. light up and started writing this FR before I fall asleep and forget a single part of how imense, amazing and life changing tonight was for me and probably all those around me.
7.pm - Weatherspoons, Liverpool street station
I decide after our drinks its a good idea to phase shift and move from gettin to know each other to getting to see each other at work. I hate to admit as a man of class and style, but there is no better place on a friday at 7.pm to crack all your warm up sets ( I usually like 2 short opens and then 3 proper open into convo with bigger sets and bring-in-a-wing or 2). On the walk I opened a 2 set of 9's walking in opposite direction, I asked where they going and it was a dive club all the after work larger louts end up. Not my flavour sorry lads lol.
So we get in the drinks start addressing Karls AA immediatly and ask where the problem is in his head and what hes tried sort of thing. Im still not into opening sets frame yet so while im encouraging him im also affirming belief in myself. I think we went for a smoke on on route I opened a 3 set about places better than the shit hole I was in at the moment and they advised of a band playing in kings cross sumwhere. Not gunna let a warm up set even try and distract me for the line of places I got sorted out lol. Walk n join lads, chatting to Karl, Perrin comes back, smile on face, admits to opening a 3 set of really rough birds just as a warm up get in the right frame. We both done ours nows its Karls time. We tell him its inevitable and that hes co me out to do this so just get on with it lol. I discovered over the course of the night rather than go chat to every and any girl possible he focuses on finding the one he likes the most and goes for that, I can understand being picky but at the moment Karl needs to seperate the emotional attachment to sex from love and attach it to something thats fun.
We forced into a harsh sensei to daniel son moment where u just gotta throw the kid in at the deep end, Perrin decided that Karl had 10 seconds to walk over and talk to the last set of girls he had commented on being attractive and open with a jealous gf routine or the routines he already knows. We count to ten and the good lad founds his courage and walked over.
From what I saw in passing it looked like a nice 2set, one maybe a 8 other prob the 6/7 friend make the 8 fit in better with the 9's sorta thing. This is where Im hoping that Perring has got his memory on tommorow because to not be afc and watch our boy at work I faced the pub and Perrin faced the direction of Karl. He was feeding back and we swtiched postions after 5 mins or so when we realised Karl had actually OPENED this set!!!! We knew he had game and had hoped that other than AA everything else was tight, and we were right. I say right in the best way possible...
In the phase of Karl chatting with his pair Perring and I found ourselves with a 2 set in whispering distance, we opened, did a proper wing combo killer, I was impressed with the way both our cocky yet charming styles mashed so well in opening blatant paired wing friends sets... We chatted for ten or so (Karl still entertaining and engaging both girls) and played a few gay rourtine and negs all taken well and as they should of been. They went to get drinks and as we turned Karl came wandering, as I went to ask how it went the 2 girls appeared before us [Karl on Left me on Right]. Not bad at all they were good enough for me lol. I knew instantly though one of the girls lives in my clubbing town and Ive seen her about
and chat bout where I seen her (lol) and turns out she does, not sure if I do know her but effectively Ive just split Karls pair in 2. We chatted with Karl entertaining both girls and Perrin and I splittin the pair. I feel bad for saying it and its purely only because i wasnt only helping Karl but it was my first time out with PUA's so I went alpha. Isolated mine and thought they can fight for the scraps. Thats the mentality I teach, PUA's always roll solo, I kinda feel in a way Karl offered us a sacrafice that evening, he was probably happy enough to have had the most sucessfull warm up set of all 3 of us.
We persist with banter etc and then move ourselves to the next stop of the tour.
8.pm - Light Bar E1 -
www.thelighte1.com
Keep the good vibes going now Karl opened a set and me n Perrin starting to get into our proper frames for the evening. We know what we gotta do, how to do it, and were on a decent straight talking understandintg.
Id like to point out at bars and lounges go, this so far is my single favourite place to be after work on a friday. Whenever I can I encourage people to go here lol. I think the vibe was universal.
Things got into motion, we walked to the bar, I saw a nice tall pretty smiley type walked up to her put my arm around her and asked if she knew much about the fine wines she was reading over. Karl takes my drink order and I continue with some opener and then spit some of my DHV material tell her what im about. Shes sweedish and studying fashion here at uni. Nice girl. Then, the absolutely amazing happens, daniel son cracks straight into my set passing me a drink and cock blocks straight onto my girls path. I admire his balls and technique and tbh Im not going for the kills neway im just chatting to girls maintaining my game and making sure my name reigns with fame. I bac off with Perrin and take a smoke break. Karl doesnt smoke so its ideal kinda tutor talk time. We actually then toy with the idea of working as a pair in a sorting of training function. Karl comes to us, he notices a set that isnt already opened he likes and then the AA comes back. He basically needs a wing to open and he can cut in and take it away with his kool DHV materials. Its suiting me well as I want to remain completely faithful to my girl. I would post this stuff on the internet and be persuing this career and be with her otherwise. She accepts that this is part of who I am.
He made a fatal and got caught looking so we had to instate our ten 2nd count down on Karl and the targets, he walked turned and bottled from a 10 oclock approach. Sum how they didnt notice it too badly and we eventually got Karl motivated to relax and open. He does so with the mate and his jealous gf, so being a good wing Im standing with Perrin having a full blown arguement with no1 down my phone telling my girl she a paranoid bithc... Perrin then takes the phone and tells her shes crazy and that I should get back with my ex. We really are helping make sure hes confident his opener is good enough to not fail if he just walks over there. Again we stand as to not leer at our mate. Then Perrin notices a cock block, it seems as I watched as Perrin came in to block the guy on his approached, Karl actually moved closer to the other guy to talk to him and away from the girl, leaving Perrin with the girl. 2 of his mates started to try and close in on his set and he failed with the 1st guardian angel, now my turn, I went between the karl and the 1st approacher, interupted there convo by leaning in on karl, telling him to get bk to his girl I got the guys. He swifty turned, Perrin swooped out and to me and we cut away the guys with big man big money macho bullshit. 2 turned away, the one who started chatting to Karl to start with started latching to me 2, so we jus burned the guys n went to the girls. Grabbed Karl and had a get together. We decide toilet and then time to head vodka revolutions. Another of my favourite establishments. I think me n Perrin completely in the swing of things, we opening everything, our routines in harmony, our games in check and he finally got a wing who can help him, I got sum1 I can game with who can fuck the girls I open up and we got Karl who learning from 2 guys who got there game coming strong and correct!! lol
9.30pm Revolution's Vodka Bar
Now Ive only been here once, I knew the place was special but I came at 6 with the after work crowd, I didnt realise we'd have to que up but we got in pretty quickly. £5 entry and considering we were standing in line with 9'z n Dime'z it was really a small price to pay.
Things were in full swing, the place was bumpin, the SPAM was bumping. Girls all looking 8+ so I definatly got the scaling and timing of my destinations right. This is where we bed in for the night, we've hoped, we've skipped, we've teased a few chicks, having a riot.
Drinks in sets opening left n right, Karl has kinda submitted to the AA again and is getting a feel for the place, in hindsight when we are tutoring my students, I will be helping them over having a good time myself. But this is effectively a dummy run and a good night out so I stop bombarding Karl with wisdown and see how he pans out.
Rest of the night until about midnight we were bumping about the bar area, theres a nightclub down strairs in the basement but the bar is much more nice and open, im more of a bar guy. Im not the sort to fend of afc chumps going caveman on the dancefloor. Real women get taken to dance they shoudlnt be dancing already. Again I commited another fundamental fllor for an area to change when im in my trainer role rather than a split. Karl was eager and anxious to go mix it in the nightclub part and effectively use his prowess as a man of knowledge to secure himself a girl in the carnage. We gave it a go, I got annoyed with que lengths, disgusting behaviour of blatantly taking advantage of all the drunk girls n stuff. Its just not me, its like a meat market in some clubs and I prefer to be with a more pleasant anf nice company. If I got a girl down there I wud isolate straight back upstaira.
Sarges were in full swing Ive seen the lads bumping bout we all comfy n having fun. The venue on lock we all content and me n perrin on fire, karl soaking that up and I think just generally enjoying being out amongst it over the fact he aint talking to women. I think hes just going through some social adjustments and that and obviously new company, appraoch to going out. Sometimes its daunting. I think about the game to intricatly that im sitting her making sure I squeeze out every good part of this night to do justice to the amazing wings I rolled with and to planting the seeds for the future.
Im not gunna run all my sets, but just notes par se. At sum points Perrin was caming over Karls shoulder filming my approaches and techniques.
The Highlights!
2 girls I opened earlier moved and lingured near us, over to the table walks "blueshirtwhitevestblackbeeryafcman" he aproachs, pulls out a phone and just stands near them. Its a sorry state of afc, thats a man who needs help, probably our help. So I approach and use the blue shirt guy as a CnF pointing out his flaws in shitty approach, the girls said they didnt even realise he had walked over towards them, thats how bad it was. I have a banter and the clock the cam and cut the set short. Get the score on them filming my routines, gunna be usefull for the future.
I get back to our zone and 2 ropey looking 6's dancing with eachother and some bald tall older guy, they doing the full lesbian cock tease and his afcwing is standing bout, the wing was over 40 at least. Office sluts. But it was also captivating us, Perrin hit the nail on the head when he realised that we didnt have ne girls dancing for us and they did. So I opened my body language up to the girls, smiled at one and took her by the hand, started dancing a bit, threw a few hoops like hold this do that, then started getting IOI's, as im not pulling girls I thought Id test a hrdcore neg technique I heard works a treat if done well, it appears im blessed. As shes talking she keeps telling me im cocky, I know she likes it coz of kino and dancing etc, so I said to her "do u wanna know whats really cocky? If I just turn around and ignore you. Then I did, started a conversation about the girl with Karl while she dumbstruck, she then starts a conversation with the back of my head and her mate see's the burn Ive done, I just manage to turn to cut the mate and swoop the girl in my arm and isolate to a seat and it works a charm. She likes my style so I start my variation of the cube on her. Its going ok then Perring has a word in my ear bout moving our set down to the club.
Other than that there was a girl on her 21st birthday who I met in the smoking area, she was bout an 8, and "claims" she is a figue skater and does it for england.. I went with it because she was adamant, if it was DHV it was fucking blinding she even did a verticle split n put her leg on my shoulder, number closed it as kino escalated and itd be interesting to know a figure skater at least. We then went inside hand in hand, I left her with her gay guardian and found the lads.
My favourite crack was the one nobody saw lol. I went to the toilet, and u have to go down a big set of stairs, on my way back up an easy 9, looking sooo fine walks down stairs towards me, I used my canned instant opener and compliment an accessory and not her but also in the guise of buying summin nice for my sister as its her 21st on sunday. She said it was from oasis and I said can you get them elsewhere..yadda yadda... she was more or less forgetting the need to go to the toilet, so I though I would throw out my cockblock and remind her she was going toilet. She just carried on talking. Earlier when Karl brought the 2 girls over we got put on the spot bout how we knew eachother, me and perrin felt the instant panic so I just opened my mouth and hoped that Karl hadnt mentioned how we knew eachother, I said me and Karl used to drink in a pub in Hoxton (chicks dig hoxton and shoreditch) and we met Perring a while back so started coming out some other places together n that. It worked a treat. The reason I digress is because 2nite I felt like I wanted to own a bar im renovating, actually use some bullshit for once. I invited her to my launch night, number closed it and then I said I would take her for a drink befoire that though. Quality.
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