I've noticed through casual conversations with women that if you hit on something they like they will automatically talk your head off. This stirs up excitement and a positive emotion which can be anchored to you. So when your done with the conversation - she will leave feeling happy and more willing to talk to you.

Say if a girl gives you her number and the conversation went okay. She'll be kinda hesitate or maybe unwilling. Now, if the conversation went south - well you can imagine where that would go.

From my experiences, I was talking to a woman and I noticed something that interested her. I went with the conversation she is more willing to like. Her excitement in the topic she was talking about made me realize that most men miss this.

Having poor social communication skills is a must when dealing with people and woman alike.

Here's a few examples:

1) Bob meats Jane at a bar. They're sitting together talking.

JANE: Yesterday, was beautiful I went out to the beach and played volleyball.
BOB: Oh, really? You know I was the Captain of a Volleyball team at my college. Were you captain of your volleyball team?

LOL! Kinda extreme but it demostrates that this guy got into a competitive mode. There are some men that are threatened by a woman being able to play a sport and some think that knowing this could make him seem lame. So he tries to boost and makes himself better than her. The girl may feel like he's acting cocky and end the conversation or maybe not. Don't know.

2)

Joe and Mary met at a park both walking their dogs. They sit on a bench together and start chatting.

MARY: Have you ever saw Marley and Me?

JOE: Yeah, it was good movie. Some parts I didn't like but over all the movie was pretty good.

MARY: I agree, some parts were lame but the dog in that movie was so cute!

JOE: Is that why you named your Dog Marley? LOL! (TEASING)

What do you think how this went?

There's more conversation hooks that a person can go on. When a woman talks they talk about a situation on how they feel. We men think of something logical but not very expressive. If we did that would be considered by our social norm to be gay. Sucks huh?

What are some of your GOOD and BAD conversation hooks. Hooks are like Hooks that tie into the conversation to last longer. Without hooking at the percise time - it could end in a awkward silence. I had those happened and I hate those. Maybe because I didn't know how to respond well with talking about children when I hate children. It seemed to me that family orientation was very important with her.

List some good and bad examples of conversation hooks. Also, let's people have their opinions of why that's good and why that's not good. Also, you can give me some feedback on this thread as well.

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I've found one of the most dangerous things you can say to a lady "How was your day?".

Standby!

Next I would find an item that she mentions of some interest and ask her:

"When that happened,,, how did it make you feel?"

ANd then something to tease:

'OMFG, you said that!?! You're so anti-social! I'm going to build you a shack in the woods and lock you inside! LOL!"



I guess any time a woman is sharing her feelings, she will be happy and interested.

On my end, as far as I know I don't have any feelings and if I do have them, I don't want to know about them.


JANE: Yesterday, was beautiful I went out to the beach and played volleyball.
BOB: Oh, really? You know I was the Captain of a Volleyball team at my college. Were you captain of your volleyball team?


I can identify with Bob, a bit. I never share my achievements. That's some lame as shit. But this is what guys want. Why can't the world be this way?

JANE: Yesterday, was beautiful I went out to the beach and played volleyball.
Bob: Really!?! That's way cool. Now let's go have sex.
Jane: OK

LMAO! That is funny what you said at the end. LOL! Nice!

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nightrider767, when you mean dangerous referring to "How was your day?" is it dangerously good to use or meaning you should not say How was your day to a girl. Or does saying How was your day very good for getting a girl to open up to you and create a good conversation. Thanks.