Hey guys,

I'll try to sum it up as little as possible but:

I made friends with a girl probably a month and a half ago, there was definitely attraction and there were many opportunities but I didn't take the chances.

Recently I went on a holiday with a group of friends, but she went to another state to see her friends. I asked her to dinner before we had the holiday started but she denied because there was either no attraction anymore or because of assignments.
Anyway she promised that we'd catch up after the holidays but I told her that I might not hang around the social group after the holiday due to several minor reasons, one of the reasons being her. I really started to like her at this point and every chance I met her, no opportunity arose, and everytime I tried to organize something, there would be reasons. I started to get the hint that there was no chance so there was no point hanging around her since it would just make me depressed.

Anyway after the holiday we talked, and I eventually did see her (with a group of her friends, who are also my friends) (her friend who im really good friends with invited me over to go to a bar). Anyway I realised that I might be that one guy in a group of girls. I dont know what to make of it but that night here is a brief sample of the night:
-eventually went to the city, met up with more girls (4 girls and me)
-went to a bar, the girl i like got really sick from predrinks
-the girl that invited me out, the girl i like and myself caught a cab to the second girls house. They crashed on the bed and I (my friend pointed out this shit move, but the bed was seriously small) and said earlier that i could sleep on the floor (as a joke) so I slept on the bottom on the bed, I probably got no sleep that night but in the morning I slept next to the girl that invited me out while the other girl had a shower.
-she was talking about other guys

Anyway while putting away her earrings in a box, we all see a condom and make jokes about it, and she says "my friend gave it to me ages ago and said if i still had it by the end of the week she'd be proud of me" we joked about it some more. Anyway the girl that invited me out and myself left in the morning.

So from that massive block of text, I was wondering if i still have a chance, or did I blow it?

If you want more specific information just ask

Thanks in advance.

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Honestly man, it sounds to me like you haven't made any attempt to let this girl know you might be interested or that she might have the slightest chance and you're just sitting around waiting on her to "make a move." This is never a good strategy. Remember: big risks, big rewards. Fortune favors the bold.

And next time, when you recognize those windows of opportunity, escalate!

Your boy,
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