I got the impression that stealing girls was OK from all the threads here about AMOGs , BF destroyers , routines to use on girls with boyfriends... I thought that's what PUAs did: use the tools and skills they have to get any woman they want no matter who she is. In retrospect that sounds pretty selfish.

I would like to clarify that I'm not in as big of a hurry to get laid as I've made it out so far. I've been gaming pretty much every girli encounter for practice and have had a few oppurtunities to get laid as a result but I can never get into it , so I turn them down. The AFC in me is still like "noooo I want to be a romantic and sleep with girls I like on a sunset beach" but I'll kick his ass sooner or later.

So yeah you caught me, I have a major case of one-itis for the girl and I know it's really terrible of me to ask for advice on stealing her. So when the summer comes around I'm not doing anything unless she leaves him (don't know how into a long distance relationship shed be) and in the meantime I'll keep practicing on randoms. with any luck I'll find a girl I like better anyways!

anyways thanks for all the replies.

a BF destroyer is intended to use on a girl who DOESN'T actually have a boyfriend. Girls -WILL- tell you "I have a boyfriend" even if they don't to get you to go away.

That's not the impression I got. BF destroyers are for making the boyfriend look like a clingy tool so she'll lose attraction for him.

On that topic, if a girl dumps a guy because she is so attracted to you is that as bad as her cheating on him with you or worse? Just trying to determine the ethics of this community, this question is not related to the OP.

ha i know what its like, i prefer a challenge to get a girl anyway.

I do various things to get the BF out of the picture.

Firstly by not bringing him up, dont ask because i dont wanna know what hes like etc.

Ok say if she brings him up, i listen carefull to what she says to try break him down without her realising.

Her - "yeah my bf goes to that gym that most days"
me - "oh yeah, that cool that he choses to spend most of his free time their"

I usually treat them like a normal girl and just dont bring him up.