Hey, I'm pretty new here but I'll get straight to the point. I haven't had a good date or experaince with a woman for 2 years now. I'm tired and fet up about it. Everyone says "Don't worry, soemone will pop up", or "you just have to patient". They're such hypocrits, they wait a month and are in a relationship or have an FB. I'm tired of it and I need your help.

For the most part I'm interested in a relationship, but I could easily settle for having an FB. I lack the overall confidence to engage in these things, I just feel like I'm never going to make it, I know I need to change this outlook... But running for 2 years like this hasn't helped me at all. What do I need to do get my confidence up so I'm more noticable?

What should I focus on to help boost my apperance?

How do I get to be noticed?

What do I say?

How do I say something "Suggestive" without getting smacked?


Pretty much I need a crash course 101 in pick up. Any suggestions?

hey welcome to the community!

to up your appearance i suggest going out to a good store and use the girls that work there and ask them for advice on what looks good on you
also style is an individual expression so choose what ya like and feel comfortable in as well

as for physical just take care of yourself


to get noticed just be confident
display confident body language
and be the fun guy that people wanna hang around
carry yourself good and you will get noticed


there is no magic thing to say so cant help you there

also read stuff and put it into practice there is some great threads on this site that can help you out
also get out and live a life it will really boost your game and confidence
when your out having fun trying to interesting fun things




good luck


-hatch

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"Leave her better than you found her"

"Amateurs do it until they get it right, professionals keeping doing it until they cant get it wrong"

Well that seems simple enough. I have a hard time boosting my own self confidence though. The way the economy is, my lousy job, and my current status just seem to have worn me down. What's the best way too boost ones own confidence? This is probably my bigegst hurdle yet.

Also, I'm bad at the approach and coming across to another woman. What are some good subtle techniques?

Yes, I will check the other threads as well for some general ideas... That seems like a great idea. But I'll keep using this thread for some straight forward q/a as well.