We can define the hability to handle with women as the art of right administration of our good and bad actions in the right situations.
If will be exclusively goods, we will be betrayed. If we be exclusively bads, we will lost the reason and will give to them motives to a future vengeance. The ideal is be placed between the good and bad, being cruel or kind according the situations, without ever be polarizated to one side.
Ever keep the reason with you, and never be unfair. In this way, you will be able to tell the truth about her mistakes and dishonesty pitilessly, destroying tottaly her defences.
Act as you are dominating a wild animal. Reward the honesty, the transparency and loyalty with caress, dedication and protection, or even gifts. On other hand, be pitiless to punish her dishonesty, attitudes that seems suspicious, confuse or ambiguous, the same on the subtle treachery. If there's a sort of true regret by acts not so serious, which is rare by the natural falseness of female sex, be comprehensible. But take care with the crocodile tears.
Oscillate according the situation, without ever be fixed in the good or bad side. Don't you act exclusively be good or bad, confuse her (send mixed signals). Be fair. Never punish her if she doesnt deserves, because it will legitimate the resentment. If you trespass, be fast to correct your mistake.
Habituate her with you presence, not with your absence. If you deviate from her with too much frequence, your partner (or target) will be used with your absence, and everything gonna be fucked up. On other hand, if you be always present, your presence can't be valorizated. Again, the ideal is deviate or to break with her only in the right moments, this means that you can do this when occurs an attempt of cheat. Nevertheless, those moments needs a total and prolongate isolation. Don't waste your time accumulating resistance: if you suffer to two days without call or search her, but be weaken in the third day and search her, you need to start again the score.
Is always necessary to compensate your stiffness with protection. The full time indifference and distance cold the relationship.
It's a common mistake of the inexperienceds be fixed on kindness or wickedness. Instead of obtain the wished results, all they can get is just the opposite. To master a woman is necessary oscillate per the imposite necessities by her stupid games and keep you above the female's futility and mediocrity, hability that claims the radical death of our weakness and imperfections (inner game).
* This is an small adaptation of an extract of a brazilian anonymous writer. Hope you like it.
** English isnt my first language, don't you worry about my english!
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