I have two questions that are similar to each other:

1) Can somebody give me some ideas for livening up a game of beer pong? Right now I suck, so most of the time its just me missing and I just kind of stand there waiting for something interesting to happen. Any fun little routines or side games or something along those lines would be great.

2) How do I become the life of the party [when im sober]. After a few beers I'm normally pretty relaxed and having a good time, but sometimes I'll have to drive.


Thanks,
Jogii

1. Not sure what beer pong is....

2. Life and Soul of the party, i.e. Alpha Male !!!

this is the essential element of a PUA, you need to be the main man in the room. i.e. increase ur social proof, get talking to everyone and when you talk to them be fun and out going, not the guy who starts talking about work or something boring like that, have the most interesting amuzing conversations with people and ur social proof will increase. this will lead to u being the life and soul, also take note of what u do differently when ur drunk compared to sober, are u more anxious sober, less entertaining etc, figure out what the mental change is pre drink and post drink and bring those elements into ur sober game.

a party isnt a party round my way without me, a decent night out is only a decent night out because I came. even my mates LTR's admit that nights out without me there are pretty boring.

I have a good mix of cheekyness, attitude and enthusiasm that rocks a night out

Thats some good advice. 'Preciate it man.


btw...
Beer pong is a very common game that we play in the states where couples go head to head throwing a ping pong ball across a table and trying to make it in one of 9 cups of beer. When a ball is made in the cup, the opposing team has to drink it. The rules are quite varied though.