OK,

Basically, to cut a long story short, last weekend I managed to blast through my sticking point and kiss-closed /number closed a girl in a club. Had another opportunity with another girl that night before but DLV'ed towards the end.

Thing is she wasn't attractive (less than five) however, I set up a day 2 with her for practise. In the end I told her I wasn't looking for a serious relationship and we went our separate ways.

At the moment I feel I've come a long way, I was able to escalate when before I wouldn't have. And I'm working on my inner game.

Despite this I still feel deflated cos there was no attraction. How do I maintain momentum?

Appreciate the feedback.

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hi
i think that it is a step by step process. You have made a breakthrough and can escalate and get the kiss closes so i think that it is now time for you to move on a level,

i feel that i have got my openers prettty down. i can approach and that is ok and eject. now i need to move onto what happens in midgame. there will be some difficulties and sticking points but surely a way through will appear and then i will be onto closes.

I find that i have great inner game at the begninning of the night but towards the end i flag a bit and lose my steam. however it is funny because i do more approaches at the end of the night. i don't know why this is. if i could do more at the beginning of the evening i reckon i would pump up my success rate loads.

before i might have said, go get some dutch courage but that doesnt' help either
also after one burn out i get feeling a bit deflated so that probably affects my self esteem too. i have no mid game at all. just mundane comments like what do you do? etc etc. perfect for insomnia patients.

anyway sorry i cant be much more help. but am sure that if you have got as far as getting k closes then it won't be long before you have the whole game worked out.

nice post