Ok, my friend asked me this and I advised him but I just want to see what you guys say

"I went to a party on Sunday night, and this HB who I have made out with before we basically hit it off right from the start, it was weird, she had a BF but i didnt really know, well i sort of did.

Anyway, we got closer and closer and we made out, spent most of the evening with her, she kissed me all night, held my hand basically acted like my GF, her BF found out, and we talked about it, she kind of seemed upset but he'd been messing her around recently but she told him if he wanted to end it then he should, he'd come to see her once in the 4 weeks she'd been with him and he'd used her for sex.

They finished that night, and we arranged to go to a club in the tuesday night me her, her friend and my mate, went into the club saw her danced with her for a sec then made out and walked off lol did a few things didnt want to come across as needy, well her friend asked us to stay at hers that night.. and we did but we all slept in the same room so sex was out of the question lol, but we made out the whole night it was like heavy foreplay. She didnt care if anyone saw. Next morning we went and I kissed her again and walked off..

thursday night she came with her friend again to watch me play football, I played really well and she saw and we walked into town together me her friend and my two mates she held my hand again and we basically just made out AGAIN, she acts like my GF! Now I havent seen her since then but we spoke friday night.. now my mate who is really close to her told me that HB rang him and told him that she'd met up with her ex and he wants to get back together, she swears she did nothing with him but is also in two minds and wanted to know how I would feel about this? My friend said im sure he wouldnt be too bothered, she also said but I dont want to break his heart. Her friend told me that they might be getting back together and when HB found out about this she flipped and said it wasnt true and its not fair she said that."

Now my friend wanted to know how he could use some BF destroyers, what to say to the HB when they speak again and basically my opinion

Gimmie your best guys

this is another moment when certain aspects of pick-up need to be put to the side.

clearly she's having a personal dilemma, so you guys should talk about it.

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She's in two minds because she wants to have sex with both of you. Pick up your phone. Dial her number. And tell her that she should just have sex with both of you. It's called polyamory. What's the point of using these forums to find a gf? It's like you went AFC-->rAFC-->AFC

polyamory involves love lol Amore = love btw

polygomy would be the right word as its mutliple relationships

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Polyamory is an umbrella term that refers to all kinds of non-mongamous arrangements. Technically polygamy refers to either polyandry or polyginy (sp?) which are types of marriage. Anyway it's all semantics.