Ok so its been about a month since me and my ex split. After a week of no contact she called me crying and said she was confused and wants me back but still thinks we need to stay apart and not hook up or anything. We talk sometimes but she gets into really bitchy moods A LOT with me. When she doesn't respond to a text, i'll send something playful like "well little miss no reply maybe i'll text someone who actually keeps a conversation!" She usually responds with some sort of excuse like "hahaha im sooo sorry i fell asleep!" But what i don't know is whether it's worth or even possible to game your ex girlfriend. And if it is, is what I'm doing right? and how can I do it better?

I've been there...What do YOU want?
Don't worry about what she wants! I did that for sooo long, she would say come by, I'll make dinner, let's watch a movie...hell, when I played it right, she would say, Damn Im horny...I need you now! But it was just to get me back, prevent me from hooking up all the while she got me there and then when I was there, sh!t didn't change.

If you think she is someone worth keeping, if she makes you happy, then give her your time. Explain to her what you want, communication is VERY KEY.

For me, I finally realized that it was not worth it for me and I have finally made it a poing to move on!

Follow your intuition, if it feels right, go for it with no regret of the outcome, if you think it's a waste of your time, then "Cut the Thread". Don't let no one judge you for what you want...I don't regret what I did, trying to make it work, but it didn't and I moved on knowing I won't go back...Now I'm being hounded by her BIG time, but I'm on the path to bigger and better...are you?

Hey man,

please dont get offended or mad, but it sounds like she is boyfriend shopping. she wants to know youll be around while she needs you for security and once she finds a guy she will be gone.

It is possible to game her though, but it will be hard. Did she break up with you or she break up with you? If she broke up with you its a bit harder to get back. What I would suggest is her seeing you with other girls (creating jealously), having fun, and anchoring in her social circle so her friends build value for you.

My suggestion is to try to move on. Im not sure how long you dated but before I was in the community I dated a girl for over a year and she broke up with me and it sucked like hell, but now I look back Im glad I walked away and started improving myself. Thats my 2 cents