I was just curious. There are definitely a lot of hot girls at the strip club, but it always seems like they just put up a wall when you talk to them. It's always about getting as much money out of you as possible. Which is understandable; it is their job. But the wall they put up can't be unbreakable. I mean, they need love too right? So it can't be impossible. Anyone have a suggestion or a story?

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I don't go to many strip clubs so I'm not some "strip club" expert or anything. Vegas trip maybe 10 years ago. . .

My buddies were gambling and I decided to check out a club. Never thought a Vegas strip club could be so empty. The girls looked super bored. This Vietnamese girl caught my fancy and when our eyes met, she walked over and asked for a dance. I didn't know any "rules" of gaming strippers or anything so I took her up on her offer.

Then when she offered another dance, I just engaged her in conversation but after a few minutes, she told me that if I'm not getting a dance, I can't hog all her time. So she walked off. Then a few other girls walked over for a "dance". With the first one, I tried to talk to her a bit but when she realized that she wasn't getting a dance, she took off. With the rest, I just shooed off before they even came near me.

The first girl noticed this and sat next to me again and asked me why I wasn't getting any dances. I told her that I didn't feel like it. Then she asked, "What about that Korean girl? She's really beautiful isn't she? You should get a dance from her . . ."

(I made this "whatever" face, shook my head) then told her, "I think I'd rather just hang out with you.

Apparently, as the only 2 Asian strippers of the club, they had a bit of a rivalry going . . . and now that I think of it, I'm sure the Vietnamese stripper was testing me.

Well, after my answer, it was just smooth sailing. She asked me if I knew the "Ra" or "Rock" or whatever . . . (It was a night club at the hotel where I was staying)

She gave me some freebie dances. . . was very intimate . . .and when it was time for us to leave her club and go to "our club", she whispered in my ear, "I'm going to fuck you so good tonight . . ."

My first and only stripper . . .

That was a great story, thanks for the reply. You brought up a great point in that girls by nature tend to get jealous of eachother for attention. You were able to win her over by making her feel like she was something special compared to the other girls. I think that might be the best strategy one could use. Thanks!

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i was talking to doc about this, his advice was girls that have been stripping for less than 2 months can be gamed effectively, past that they tend to see you as just another $$$

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I met a couple of strippers a couple of years ago while i was traveling around Australia, didnt meet them in a strip bar though but just got chatting to them, ended up hooking up with one and traveled a bit with them and im actually meeting up with her this week! I guess outside of the work place they are just normal girls

hmm.. mayn!! i'm still trying to improve on this... i want that kind of situation that kasabi had! i usually go to Vegas at least once a year.. and everytime.. we hit up the strip club... i mean the closest thing i've done is number close a stripper.. but i still had to pay!! i talked to her a couple of times but broke the communication since i live in CA and way too far.. i just wasn't feeling it when i got back...

last time i went to vegas, i met this girl and i did C&F the whole night.. she loved it.. but at the same time i was drunk as fuck!! when we got into the back room, straight off the bat, she was like "i'mma let you touch" I was like whatever... then I was making eye contact with her and she was like "stop looking at my eyes.. i'm going to get into it" and i said isn't that the point?! I mean in the end.. it felt like she decided that she wanted to go with me.. but what she said made me laugh.. "Put up $1500 to take me out the club" I was drunk so I could help but laugh! Then we just left the club.. GOOD TIMES!!

Like Kristall mentioned, one thing you can do to make your life 100x easier is find the new strippers... before they make it to stripper robot mode where they just see you as a $. When they are still new they are just slutty naked girls who can be gamed much much easier then the 'pro' strippers. Now the Pros are gamable too but its much much more difficult.

Either way the best thing about gaming strippers is there is basically 1 thing you need to get then your in like sin... Her name, thats the most important part... You get her real name and your no longer just a client and then its game on same as you would any other girl who is slutty enough to do what strippers do

bout the real names.. sometimes they say that their names nicky.. nicole.. angela.. how can i figure out if that's their real name or not?

Here are the top tips for getting strippers,

1. Drink game

Actually one of the first "are you PUA or AFC?" questions I ask to route out guys with game is this.

"If I gave you a wad full of cash to go and buy that stripper a drink and you arent allowed to ask her what she wants, what would you buy her?"

Now I guarantee even some of the hardened PUA's on here dont actually know the answer to this question. 9/10 guys I ask all say a cocktail, bacardi, that sort of thing.....

Now heres the key to the game, Water, yes H2O. The woman spends her 8+ hour shift shaking her ass n titts on stage for a room half full of old perverts and half full of testosterone fuelled 20 summins partying with colleages etc.

She is constantly using her energy supplies and the last thing she needs is for alchohol to affect her livelyhood. Buying her a bottle of water a) shows decisiveness because you never asked her but more importantly b) it shows consideration, she will look at guys like a £ earner so these guys buying her cocktails are the guys paying big tips n hiring private dances. They are the money where as you at the moment are an enigma.

The guy who buys her a bottle of water sticks out like my erection 1st thing in the morning. This will show her your kind and caring and you actually see the effort her job takes and appreciate her hard work.....

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2. Seat location

This isnt stripper specific but if you want to maximise your interactions with strippers then you should follow this rule of thumb. (this works well for bars/clubs/ any venue with a bathroom near by and seating).

Effectively when you enter a venue you need to scope 2 things initially before even the 1st opening etc. Find the girls bathroom and find the bar nearest to it.

Essentially you want to place yourself in the direct route from the bar to the toilet. This is the busiest avenue in the venue and most people go from bar to toilet or toilet to bar so you will contantly have talent wandering by.

Ive actually picked girls up before walking out of toilets, the good thing is quiet a few girls isolate themselves by going to bathroom so are easier to pick up when they are on the journey back to their collective.

Other than between bar and bathroom, the next best table is the one between the stage and the backstage door. This is usually on the right hand side of the main stage. This area is where all the employees, hired guns, strippers etc will congregate before starting to work and also exit. So not a bad place to be located.


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3. Defame

Ok strippers arent famous but I bet people get the same anxiety approaching them as they would a minor celebrity. They kinda get start struck, or as I like to put it, they are "putting the pussy on a pedestal." You dont want to insult her especially not because of her career choice, but u also dont really want to make it any part of the conversation. When I approach celebrities, Im usually all just like "hi and yeah i know what you've acted in etc, but realistically I dont know who you are, so thought Id come and find out while I have the chance. My names Zikki Illogical and im please to meet you."

At the end of the day we are all human beings, we are different creeds, colours, ages, sex's and status' but we are essentially flesh and bone. We all make choices, some good, some bad, some effect us, some effect others.... the one thing that unites us all though is the human condition, we are born and then we die.

So next time your with a girl who you think is unobtainable, just remember there is only 1 organ difference between you and only outside factors making u appear different.

The reaons people dont approach stippers, celebs, perfect10's etc is because they put their value above their own. No1 is better than me so

For me personally gaming strippers has become a hobby for me. I live like 15 minutes away from Frankfurt and their redlight is pretty interesting. I've even gamed a prostitute by accident as she was walking down the street to get a doner. The best thing to do with stripper game is engage in playful meaningful super-interesting conversation. I call it a verbal trance. When you get a woman to the point where she completely forgets the world around her and focuses all her attentive energy on you. Also neg neg neg. I never F-close strippers, most of them have serious emotional issues, kids, or an addiction. Not saying they all do but...

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F-closed my first stripper this bank holiday weekend.

Rocked to a "gentlemans" club after a nightclub sarge, got there about 3am, at 4 am its buy on get one free until close, i.e. 2 dancers or 2 dances...

I took an afc who spunked 100 on bout 10 stippers (2 at a time 20 a shot) ,
I bought a drink, sat near the pole and got approached by a HB9.5 + HB9 stripper. Told HB9 to tell her friend to move on as Im not interested.

HB9 was invited to sit with me and check out the girls dancing, I told her I hadnt come here for lapdances if she was hopin to make money, Id come hit to pull a stripper. I used Styles version of the Box on her and it went down like a house on fire, I then told her the 2 guys I am in there with are both clients of mine and im a life coach, specifically in the department of approaching women etc.

She thought this was kool and asked me what else I do, I gave a brief outlay of my DHV routine (an MC, own 2 small business and the life coach stuff), by now she was IOI'in me, telling me how she never gets intelligent conversation at work and the best she gets is 50 yr old balding men trying to talk dirty n get freebies.

I pointed out im nothing like other guys, and that why other guys come to me for help, because I have a gift. It was then that she learned over and K-closed me lol. She whispered in my ear that she finishes work at 5am and if I wanted to come back to her place after I should wait about.

She gave me her number and I sat outside having a ciggie in my mates car, low and behold she was good for her word and came out at 5am, she drove me to hers and we spent all morning going at it

My highest, and one of few achievements in PU was a stripper. I didn't even know the forums existed then, I kinda just ran with what I saw on the VH1 show. I went to the club with my boys on my birthday. 18th at that. They went in for some dances and I sat by myself and adjust my body language to seem, sort of down yet ready for whatever. Kind of indifferent about being there. Naturally at the strip club the girls are gonna walk up to you and run their money game. So I used this to my advantage. There was a HB 9, omg.., wandering around the club in my general area. When she'd look at me I'd look away. A few other girls came up, sat on my lap, tried to do their thing and I shot them down in 15 seconds or less. Then when the HB walked by, I called her over, and asked her where the bathroom was. She was kind of shocked I showed no interest in her. It was sort of a non direct neg. She pointed to it, and then asked why I was sitting alone. I then told her a made up story about how, My friends brought me here for my birthday but I wasn't really feelin the ladies here. She asked how old I was and what not, I lied and said 22. Then I asked her, note: I was sitting down in a chill position and she was standing up, I asked her what the big hype was about this place. She started to defend her profession and friends and then asked was I trying to say she was unattractive. I said, of course not, why else would I be talking to you. She gave me one of those playful slaps on the arm and sat on my lap. As she did that I told her staright up, I don't plan on giving you any money, so if your not into exciting conversation and using your brain then leave. She laughed and put her arm around me. We talked for a good 45 minutes. By now my friends noticed what was going on and started texting me dumb shit. I told her then, have you eaten at all today? She said, not in a while why? Then I said, cuz your making my leg numb, mind getting up. She got offended, but nothing to make her walk away. I then said, I know this is a strip club, so their has to be somehwere we can go where all these dudes wont be so jealous of me and I smile. I then tested her by stractchin my arm, then moving my arm down and adjusting my junk to see where her eyes went. She followed then and was staring at my crotch. So I called her out on it, and she got a little embarrased. By now I was in the zone so she led me to one of the private lap dance rooms in the back, holding me by my pleasure stick. When we got in the back she straddled me..and I kind of pushed her off. I said, game recognize game dear, You can't hustle me that easy. She said Don't worry, this is free. Did her little dance thing. That night was a premier night when they have a famous either dancer or porn star come out and do a special table dance. So all the dancers reported to the front for support, but she stayed behind with me. I won't go into detail about all that happened next, but that's how I did it.

I picked up a stripper a while ago (before I had even read about "Stripper Game"). Here it goes... after a night out with a friend, he wanted to go to a strip joint, so we ended up there. I brushed off the first two or three chicks who came to me when they asked for a drink (had no intention to spend any money on them) and the next girl ho came seemed to just want to chill with me for a while. Before she had a chance to ask for a drink I told her that we can meet for coffee afterwards (it was close to 5 a.m. when the club closed). She agreed and we met at a coffee shop close to where I live. She just wanted to chat at first, but when I proposed a drink at my place she agreed eventually. I made it sound as casual as possible, w/o even hinting at sex. After F-closing we ended up seeing each other for a couple of wild months... To me the key to stripper game is to make it seem as little about sex as possible, unless she's like really attracted to you... Hope this helps...

Partying with clients in strip clubs used to be part of my job. Fucking strippers in the VIP room is a standard feature of the corporate expense.

Now, the company president does not trust gay guys. What he does usually is to interview the strippers after sex to cull out the bad apples from his company. My college buddy briefed me on this on the first day that I joined the company.

On my first night out with some clients, I made sure that I fucked the brains out of the stripper that got assigned to me. One thing is for sure, most women, even strippers and prostitutes seldom achieve even one vaginal orgasm. In fact, most of them do not know how a real vaginal orgasm really feels like.

To make things short, after more than an hour of my fuck routines (one of our client is waiting for his turn to use the VIP room so I can't go on for more than one hour), the stripper number closed me. We had a few dates afterwards where she paid for most of our expenses. Another positive is that I got to work for the company for the long term instead of just a 3 month contract.

Yes. The problem that most women cannot have vaginal orgasms due to clueless partners is real; not just in the scientific studies already made.

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