Hey guys!

I'm an average guy, I guess. I used to be very introverted, especially after I got out of a long relationship. Then maybe two years ago I read "The Game" and then hunted for a few basic books on PUA techniques. And then I went into the world to apply this knowledge.

It did wonders for me. I am now a very social person in groups. Usually get around to knowing people at a party and make things center around me. The guys like me, I can usually isolate the prettiest girl(s). I think my average as far as getting a number is very high. Kino, eye contact, conversation... I am extremely comfortable in such situations. In fact, I now have a reputation with buddies as a ladykiller at parties (and some of them are amazing natural PUAs).

But I have a problem... a HUGE one. It goes downhill once I have to call back or on the first date. I just don't know what to do. I mess things up. I know it's mostly me. My confidence disappears, I've got no idea what to say one on one. Not because I am a boring person, nor do I think I am dumb. I become more shy. I don't know where to take it from there. It's been so bad I sometimes am too intimidated to even call the number.

It's even more frustrating because I am the "relationship advice" person in my social circle. I'm good at reading my friends and their issues with women. I just can't apply it to me.

So I guess I will try to contribute where I can and the advice I will ask will mostly be about "closing", I guess. I've forgotten all the PUA jargon, all the terms and techniques. So I'm starting a bit from scratch, although I am sure I'm applying a lot of what I learned without even thinking about it.

Cheers,

Ghost Cat

It'll come back to you.

Welcome to the forum!

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Thank you, much appreciated!

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Ghost Cat

My introduction post is here if you are curious about me: viewtopic.php?p=234187#234187