alright im not too sure about the first two questions you had
fist thing i wanna know is what did she hesitate for 15 seconds and say no to???
second thing is open up in text messaging as in how???
like do you mean get her away fro the boring text like "whats up?" "yeah" "lol thats cool"
or do you mean on a personal level( you should never try to get personal over text i might add)
as for your third question:
if you wanna stay out of the "lets just be friends" zone and make it to a f close
then you need to escalate kino with her and be more sexual with her
i recommend checking out an awesome guide exactly for this type of thing
written by Vin Dicarlo(ill attach a link to the bottom)
cheers,
mike
http://www.vindicarlo.com/DiCarlo%20Esc ... lo.com.pdf