ok so im keeping it brief.

ive been gaming a girl for a few weeks now and ive felt like i started to lose interest. like i used to get a load of IOI's and she was usully really responsive but then lately she hasnt been so returning. so my friend suggested i just take a break and probably try to move on. so i didnt talk to her for a week. Yesterday, i walked by her group at lunch, and found myself a new target. yeah so this other girl is a lot more playful than her friend i was gaming so when i say them i started playing around/ flirting with the other girl, even when my previous game was clearly sitting in front of us.
so i figure she would, you know, see me with gaming someone else.

now this is the first time i experienced the girl trying to qualify. like im still trying to phase that mentality into my game, but today i experienced what it means. so this morning she msgs me and we start talking for an hour. its good since i was usually the one to call or start a conversation. and it she even talked to me again later today.

so now i get the feeling shes chasing me, or at least trying to qualify for me. and really, i dont know how to act now. like i still feel like gaming with her friend but she is an HB8. what do you think guys?

Ok, since you kept it breif, I am not sure of all the details but from what I have gathered it just seems now you need to escalate, with both. First off, while reading it, I couldn't help but feel as though when you were gaming the first girl you weren't doing things with her, I.E taking her places, meeting up, doing things to KEEP her interest. I'm also not sure how far you got in kino with her. Right now I think she should be your first target while keeping them both on leashes.

First off, I would invite the first girl you were gaming to a movie. but do it casually, and don't actually invite her, try to make it sound like your telling her, and try to make it sound appealing as well, while not making it look needy.

"This awesome movie ____ is coming out friday, we are totally going"
send that to her in a text, if she is trying to get you as you say she is, then it will work perfectly. Once at the movies, kino kino kino. Put your arm around her, girls will go NUTS if you can manage to take your fingers and slightly rub them up and down her arm while you are watching the movie.

After that, keep gaming her friend too, I wouldn't take her to the movies as well, depending on what she likes I would play on that. I.e park, beach, cafe, bookstore ect. and game her there. If money isn't and issue, minigolf, or some sort of activity where you can show her how to "do" something while using kino is always good.


If you got absolutely nothing out of that, my point is escalation. You have them both in your grasp now its time to up the ante.

"Hey let's go sit in a dark room together for two hours and let the time past while staring at a screen and waiting for awkward puases to pass."

For a day 2 Movies are G O D A W F U L, right next to formal restraunts, frankly I'd rather take her to a dentists reception and just let the time pass, at least in that enviroment we're not spending a fortune to sit in silence.

The real problem with movies are that they force you to either watch the movie, which bonds you together about as well as Peirce Morgan at an educated opinion festival.

As for interest either a guy is attractive or he's not, you need keep up buying temparature if you want to keep it constant within the set, but attraction doesn't normally work that way.

Attraction from what I've found can last alot of time, people don't lose interest when getting accidentaly LJBF'd they just lose frame.

Attraction stays, it's fucking attraction; if your hot your hot your hot... Gett-it?

Fin does have a point, I must admit I am a bit biased because I have had alot of good things happen at movies and I am also a huge movie buff/ semi film critic for my colleges paper. Also, on a side note, I think movies do provide a good SPAM mostly because I am always saying funny little things during the movie, or doing outrageous things, of course while being carefull not to ruin anyones experience, afterall we are all paying for it. One example:

When Xmen 3 came out, the last stand, if anyone remembers during that whole movie magneto was trying to get an army of mutants together, giving speeches and so on and so forth, SO when the movie ended and went to the credits, before everyone got up i ran to the front of the theatre and started yelling

PEOPLE OF THE THEATRE! I CALL APON YOU BROTHERS AND SISTERS TO JOIN ME, JOIN ME NOW! WE MUST STOP THE MOVIE THEATRE AND THEIR DISGUSTING DISPLAY OF LEECHING OFF OF OUR MONEY! WE ARE THE FUTURE, NOT THEM! IF YOU ARE WITH ME, LET ME HERE YOU YELL!

A few people yelled, one guy yelled "HAVE MY BABIES!" and of course my date thought it was absolutely hilarious.

The moral of this story is, it's not where you take her that's important, its what you do. I was trying to get that point across in my first post.

But of course, it all depends on who you are, this works for me, and I only give advice based on my past experiences and since i have ALOT i have come to this forum to hopefully share them and help others

*standing ovation* You sir are a brave man, and yes.... I SHALL JOIN, WE'LL MAKE THOSE GODDAM CAPITALIST FASCISTS PAY!!

*standing ovation* You sir are a brave man, and yes.... I SHALL JOIN, WE'LL MAKE THOSE GODDAM CAPITALIST FASCISTS PAY!!