Ok Im in a relationship SPAM and this isnt about relationship question just a general question of how to turn her on..

Shes really really difficult! REALLY!

Ok where to start?

We're on the bed making out.. i'll kiss her neck a bit.. maybe a little biting and this doesnt turn her on in the slightest! shes really unresponsive.

Urmm discussing sex generally with her and she says she likes rough sex... and once some guy spent ages trying to turn her on and she almost fell asleep lmao

So is she basically saying she wants me to tear her clothes off? Im new to this shit tbh we're both only 17 so that explains it..

Also she hasn't got a dad.. she lost him when she was 5... does this account towards our relationship?

Cheers

If she likes it rough then get her to write down her fantasy,


Simple idea's using food, honey, choclate are two great but messy substances.

The other obvious ones are hand cuffs- failing that just tie her up.....

Blind-folds are great, use them to play kissing games with her.

If she really means rough, then a gag, it's oral stimulation/degrading and also leaves her powerless to tell you what to do, which is a real turn on for people who really like being "slaves".

Also ask her if she wants to be the Dominant one....

I'll be back if I can think of anything else.

you got 2 hands to turn her on too.

Turns girls on when follow their bra strap around. touch every inch of her body but the x rated areas. will drive her nuts!!!

pull away when kissing, will leave her wanting more.

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Judging from what you've said, she sounds like the kind of person I know of.

Get her near your bed and just push or throw her onto it - in a way that's obviously violently passionate, not actually violent (so wear a cheeky grin -whatever comes naturally). Then move straight on from that and pin her wrists to the bed with your hands. Never break eye contact - you want to see if she's thrilled or not, plus I think it's more erotic that way anyway. Keep going down that path, but KEEP watching or frequently checking her eyes. You will be able to tell if she's thrilled, or uncomfortable. If she's thrilled they will probably be wide and she will start making fake "helpless" noises. If she's uncomfortable you'll know, cause you'll feel akward the more you go on. Her eyes and facial expressions will basically be your source of energy for this.

The girl I'm using as a mental reference for this, always liked it to hurt a bit, so she could really feel it. She would want a guy to finger her with no less than 3 fingers inside her, that kind of thing. And she would want nice, forcefull thrusting, so she could kind of yelp and make herself feel sort of helpless. She also liked being pushed up against the wall with her legs wrapped around you, up against the wall being taken from behind, that sort of thing. Of course you have to vary the pace, like anything it can't all be climax, but generally the tone is a lot rougher than other girls.

This is a girl whom, in the bed, it's much more important to have rock solid confidence than to wonder if she's enjoying it a particular thing. If she isn't, she's got the guts to let you know, and you can just switch to something else, un-phased.

But I think, due to the very nature of the situation, you kind of have to start out without losing momentum, even if you're not sure if she's enjoying it, and the reality will start to emerge soon enough. If you start out and then falter at ANY point, the mood will be shattered into a million pieces, and she won't "buy" anything you do from that point on.