Hey, ViceD, I just read about the part about being dominant and something with texting in The Attraction Code, I think this will help.
You text:"OMG, no you did NOT!"
she propably will text back with something confused and think it's funny like "lol, what?"
Then you text" Call me"

If she called you or you called her and she answered, you can ask her about her day and talk about yours, then come out something like "so what are you doing tomorrow night?"
if she's not sure, just say "I have an idea" grinning,
she will ask you what is that,
then just say" don't you worry about that, " in a playful way "we are going to have a blast together, can you meet me at 'some place you want to date her, like starbucks' around 6?"
If you say everything in a confident and Normal way, she will likely to say yes.
Forget about any routines and openers, don't think to much and just say things you like.
If she says yes, then you could say, "cool, 6pm, and wear casual."
Be fun and dominant, do not overthinking while talking or doing anything, you might try to just go on the street and talk to people to get away you fear, approach immediately after you see that person, eye contact, smile, and don't think too much and just talk.
No game and don't try to do any routines and stuff, relax and have fun!

Interesting idea mate.

But I mean she hasn't been replying to my txts at all and she hasn't called me back. I'm afraid that if I contact her anymore she'll be thinking "Man this guys a desperate stalker...". That's what it'll look like....

Sorry I didn't see this and just posted another one. Man, I have to say, if you don't even try, you stand no chance at all, if you tried again, at least you have learned something. If you don't try anything at all can you still keep a good friendship with her?
I know it will be hard, we all know how our minds will just make us nervous and screw us up, but just forget what did no matter how AFC that is. You have really been overthinking about this whole thing, you can act totally normal and relaxed.

Yea OK so what if I ring her again and she doesn't pick up?

Do I leave another message???

Oh, One thing to mention, what time were you calling her?
Calling people at Friday and Saturday usually seems like that person has no life.
Call people at normal days and call them at evening would be a better idea, when people are more likely to have time to talk.
And don't be needy...hang up whenever you feel like you are done talking.
Call her at least 3 times.
And man, you are doing a great job acutally, keep it going and I anticipate you will do a great job.

I called her about 9pm on Friday night.

And you really think I should call her again?

It's 1:30pm Sunday 12th her in New Zealand.

When do you think I should next call her?

I see why she didn't reply, Friday night, man! everybody just have fun and is relaxing at that time! you should have fun as well!

I think you can wait about two days, and call her between 5-8pm in normal days.

And guess what? I just got something about the timing from Action Jackson.

THE WORST TIMES OF THE YEAR TO MESSAGE:
-Major Holidays where women will be out of town, on vacation,
preoccupied, etc. The week from Christmas through New Years
is definitely the worst time of the year to message women.


THE WORST DAYS OF THE WEEK TO MESSAGE:

-Weekends! Especially Friday and Saturday night! Most people
are out having fun on the weekends...and you should be too!
Messaging women on the weekends not only sub-communicates that
you have a poor social life, it also increase the chances of
your message getting buried in her inbox.


THE WORST TIMES OF THE DAY TO MESSAGE:

-As long as it's a weekday there are no really terrible times
to send out messages. If I had to avoid one time slot it
would be mid-day, but it's still not significant enough to
stop me from replying to new messages.


NOTE: The absolute best time to message girls is late night
on a weekday. This messaging time slot sub-communicates you're
a busy guy who doesn't hang out on his computer during the day.
It also gives your message the best chance of being read since
most women usually check their MySpace in the morning when
they wake up or before they go to work or when they get
to work). The afternoon is the second best time to send out
messages because women also check their MySpace in the early
evening at the end of the work day or when they get home from
work or before they go out that night.

Hope it helps~

Lol yea I suppose that helps. Thanks man.

Except she doesn't have a myspace (Myspace isn't big at all in New Zealand). I've been trying to get her onto facebook cause I have one and that's huge here.

OK then, well it is the holidays here at the moment, so there's a chance she'll be away...but I'll call her like 8pm this Wednesday...sound good?

To DHV I thought I'd say something like "I'm free this week...most of next week I'm away, so we'll have to catch up within the next few days."

That way it appears as though I'm dominant and saying she'll have to work around when I'm free.

But one question you havn't answered! Do I leave a message if she doesn't pick up? If so, what sort of shit do I say to DHV?

Cheers mate.

No, Don't leave a message, you should just wait for a while before call or text; and give her some credit, she might just go out for vacation and didn't saw your message.

She only has my cellphone number. I'm calling her cell via a landline because it's too expensive to do it through my cellphone. So if I call and don't leave a message, she's gonna see some random number has called and there will be no way she'll know it was me....