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| Chief | PostPosted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 2:52 am | |
| Offline | | Moderator |  | Joined: Thu Aug 23, 2007 9:19 am Posts: 5903 Website: http://seductiveintrovert.com | | Hey guys
As many of you may already know, I'm currently working on my first ebook. Watch my blog for more details.
I would like your help in collaborating ideas for a certain chapter.
To those of you who had once felt guilty about feeling horny for any reason, and currently feel GOOD about your sexual feelings for women:
What are some ways that you have associated positive feelings to your sense of sexuality? Both long term and short term methods can probably help me here.
Thanks in advanced.
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| madals | PostPosted: Sat Apr 11, 2009 11:15 am | |
| Offline | | Moderator Emeritus | Joined: Tue Apr 08, 2008 2:13 pm Posts: 2151 | | I know you want personal experiences but this is the advice I gave to my wing and a student and it worked for both:
If they have already closed and are feeling guilty, I get them to look at it from the perspective of the women. Make them see and think about all the positive feelings they catalysed during the interaction and how it made them feel good.
If they haven't already closed then its pretty much the same but instead of looking back on how they made the women feel good I get them to imagine how they will make her feel amazing.
Generally from my experience people feel bad about their sexual feelings because they feel they are taking and not giving. They feel guilty because they don't take into account what they give back (also stems to a mentality that the target/sex is the prize).
Hope that helps man.
Madals
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