So that's pretty much it.

I live in a students residence (don't know the exact word in english), and among them there is a german HB8 and my roommate, how has, me having no idea how, unpurpose AMOGed me with her. The guy, appart from having a good body, haven't triggered any attraction trigger at all. He's even 20cm shorter than the HB!

and as you might already imagine, I see IOIs F2M as clear as river water. I don't think he's thinking of doing absolutely anything about it, appart from playfully playing along with her IOIs.


more generally speaking (I you guys have any trick to flip the specific situation that'd me great) what to do when the hated AMOG is your own friend, him without the will of AMOGing?

thanks and awaiting,,

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Why do you "hate" AMOG's, did succesful males collectively ruin your life? I hope not.

Now let's get this straight IOI's mean alot less than you may happen to think, Key word here INDICATORS, not sign but INDICATOR.

Chances are so long as you are half decent she is also interested in you.

He may just be better at bumping her buying temperature than you are, thus she shows more interest in him than in you.

I'd say close the girl and stop being so damned concerned about what Johhny average is doing over their....


This is like the second thread today with this styling of "there's this other guy"; here's something to think on jelousy wise... her liking him, does not take attraction away from you. It takes attention away, if she so happens to like someone more than you the only question you should ask yourself is this..

"What are the chances of him closing her?"

If the answer is NEGATIVE.

Well then you don't have anything to worry about (Y)

When the guy AMOGs you, AMOG back. It's easier when they're your friend, sometimes, because you can have a genuine laugh about it without worrying about the guy thinking you're hitting on him or showing him no respect.

I have a few mates here who are into PUA and our conversations tend to get full of AMOGing and its not even conscious. But if you listen and start thinking about it you can feel the AMOGing going on and getting heavier and heavier until one of us ends it.

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I have a friend who tries to AMOG me A LOT. Mostly when I do successful things in a social interaction, like make a good joke, he will try and put a negative spin on it unconsciously. He's a great guy, he's just like this.

The answer of what to do is simple; just AMOG him back, but better. Don’t be a pushover/doormat, even to your friends. In the long-run they won’t respect you for it. Good friends have equal value, so you should have the same value as him. If he AMOG’s you, that’s fair game to AMOG him back. If he doesn’t take it well, then you have no choice but to cut that string; better than let him burn your sets all the time. There are so many AMOGGING techniques, I’m not going to explain them right now but I will give you examples from this friend of mine and me:

AMOG: “Rafiel you’re SO GAY.” (In a jokey-serious manner)
Rafiel: “ABSOLUTELY mate. In fact I’m so gay I’m attracted to you” (I start to touch him up in a jokey but alpha manner, dominating him non-verbally).

He says that a lot and I always do the same thing. After a while he just looks silly and repetitive.

AMOG: “OMG everyone just looked at us you’re so embarrassing!”
Rafiel: “Hahahahaha don’t worry man, no one took advantage of your insecurity, they were looking at me. It’s cool if you’re insecure man, we all like you right?” (motion to rest of group)

AMOG: “Why are you so weird?”
Rafiel: (Ignores him and keeps talking to HB). “Sorry, did you say something?”
AMOG: (Quieter) “Why are you so weird?”
Rafiel: “SORRY?” (Leans in and looks slightly annoyed).
AMOG: “Why are you so weird?”
(By this time he just looks stupid and all the sting out of his original comment is gone.)
Rafiel: “Oh, haha, dunno.” (Immediately starts talking to HB again as if his comment had no importance or relevance).

Basically you have to lower the other AMOG’s value without appearing affected, needy, angry, jealous or low value yourself. You just have to be calm, happy, laughing, unaffected, whilst lowering his value. AMOGGING is often like passing shit tests.

Some of the above examples are more light than others. Next time he cusses me in set I’m considering just fully AMOGGING him to hell because it’s beginning to get on my nerves, and that doesn’t happen often. You can really make a person so low value that if he doesn’t eject the set much earlier, he will just feel like shit.

first of all thx all of you for the replys. and second:

Fin, I don't hate my buddy for getting the HB attraction, who told you that? and as long as it doesn't compromise my game, I don't give a fuck about AMOGs in general.

Only when we both have the same target, there I start caring..

If he were hitting on her on purpose I'd be glad for him, but he's just playing and as a gf.

Lestat & Rafiel Gamble, thx for the advise. I will later look for anti AMOG techniques suitable for this situation.. meanwhile I'll focus on other practice targets

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normally i fly solo or with a wingman im training (more like me and him are both getting good lol!) and theres this friend of his that somehow ends up hanging with us alot, total AFC but also tries and AMOG but ends up killing a set by doing it. what would the best route be there? like its sad but his opener is "hey lovely how are you?" and its not in a smooth way. and that just kills the set for me n my winger. how should i take care of him? cause its inevitable that hell be with us a good amount of the time me and my winger are sarging.

thanks a bunch!

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"hated AMOG", I'm not implying that you hate this PARTICULAR AMOG, but the phrase that you have used indicates and immediatly negative stance to attractive males in your set.

If he is just playing and not closing, then why DO you give a fuck?

The only way he can truly interfere with your game in the long run is by closing her, and he's not doing that.

So just ignore the external factors and focus on you and her. And nothing else outside that, escalate, go where he doesn't.

Inccidently any examples of how he is hitting on her?