| This is just my personal opinion, based on experience from nightclubs, bars, coffee lounges, and school, but I much rather approach a group of people than 1 on 1.
Reason for this being:
You approach the group, you're fun, you make everyone laugh, everyone now is having a good time, and everyone likes you. You give youre target a hard time, and then just ignore her. It leaves her confused and wondering more about you. When you walk away her friends are talking about you, and now she has this urge to talk to you again.
Another favorite of mine is to go up to a group of girls and there is one I like in particular, I ask her friends. "So I'm sure this one over here gets hit on the most, and you girls as a group make a decesion whether the guy is good enough, am I right?" They will most always say yes. Takes the bitch sheild down right away. And is much easier.
If you can have a good time with her friends, they will do anything to keep you around and help you get what you want. Like this party I went to. I really only went for this one girl, but I was the "tom cruise" minus the good looks. I made every girl feel special at the party, and they all loved me and all asked for my number when I left.
I feel like when you try to isolate, or wait for the girl to go outside, you are attacking her vunerability, and that's when her bitch sheild is going to be at it's highest.
Sorry if this is common knowlegde, I've just been going out to nightclubs 3 nights a week for the past month and picked up on so many afcs waiting for a girl to walk to the bathroom, or go out for a smoke. And you know anything you say she's going to tell her girlfriends, so who cares what you say in front of them anyways. _________________ http://www.pickupreport.com/
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