Ok the story goes like this: I broke up with my girlfriend 2 years ago. Being a complete AFC, still she loved me like crazy till i began telling her i loved her more than life itself bla, bla, bla. Looking back at me back then - cant believe how week my game was.
Ok for 1 1/2 years it was back en forth still being an AFC wanting to win her back buying her stuff: no result. About 1/2 a year ago i moved to Geneve where i had to spend half a year. Here i met this mPUA, who basicllay gave me a 2 month crash course on being a PUA. Went sarging everyday got number closes like crazy. Now easy going for kiss, fuck close. Basically got the point, done my theory (never enough).
Ok since i met this PUA and went sarging, i completely forgott about my ex. Now im going back to the city where she lives for two weeks. I gammed her on msn a couple af times, but still have trouble coping with the past. I got positive response: she asked me when i was coming, said she had nothing to do on that day.

I basically need some helpful tips regarding this situation and fast since im there friday morning. Should i game her, her friends other girls around her: cocky funny. The one iti's sent is still a little bit present. Need some solid advice! Depending on you guys...

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dude, I would say do this....Since she must not be a bitch, go for it. If its possible she will become a bitch after you attempt to bag her, then think it over.

I would say ask yourself why you want to sarge a girl you could have had a long time ago if you didn't break up with her?

Plus you've been there, done that. Move on to something better. You know her flaws, tendencies, things that irritate you.

Your suppose to put a spell on her, but that is hard to do when you already know the combination to the lock. Also keep your sarging out of your conversations if you go through with it.

if you want to have fun, just go for it, and show her the new person you've become...

but keep in mind that you were together, and you might get hurt with it, and come back to your previous state of she's-so-the-one. i mean, it depends on your feelings, if you feel like you want to have some fun go for it.. if you think you might get attached and you don't want it, go for something else.. plenty of chicks in the city she's living i bet with you.

don't confuse that two things i would say.. you have the power to choose, do it wisely


~Smile

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"don't hate the player...
hate the game."

Man,

I got into sarging to cope with breaking up with a girl i was nuts over. I still think about her lots, but I know that if I went back, not only would i undo all the good work i've done since, but the reasons we broke up in the first place would come back to haunt. Be happy with who you are now, you've owned that ass in the past....move onto better (not necessarily bigger) things.

Dont mean to be blunt, but feel this would be a mistake

All i got to say is push-pull.

Do it right she will go nuts , and then u got a f-buddy.

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Among our structurally closest analogues- the primates- the male does not feed the female. Heavy with young , making her way laboriously along , she fends for herself. He may fight to protect her or to possess her , but he does not nurture her.

I disagree with most of these people. . ..

It appears that you already have moved on to "bigger and better" things and yet you still find yourself thinking about your ex.

Why not give it another shot with her. Obviously, you changed and I bet she has as well. . . see what she is all about.

I agree with the push-pull method here. She has to be made aware that you are completely over her, but you don't mind being her "friend". Take her out, show her a good time, but don't make her the center of attention.

Casually flirt with other girls around you, making sure that you introduce them to your "friend" (X's hate to referred to by this term). Don't be rude to her. Don't ignore her. But show her your PUA skills as well. It will make her jealous and create some sexual tension between y'all. I'm sure you can handle the rest on your own. Good luck.

If it adds quality to your life enjoy her but don't forget yourself (new self). Do things that you will enjoy as well and if she likes them fine if not then let it be.

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Look to a Way, that is not a route to a destination bur rather the journey itself, for you cannot become what it is you aspire to unless you can be it where you are now.