| Some areas of skin have a higher concentration of nerve endings, like your hands, feet, neck, erogenous zones (sexual parts), whereas others have very few nerve endings and are therefore less sensitive. Because the hands have such a high concentration of nerve endings, contact on the hands is far better than contact on the cheeks where the concentration of nerve endings is low. So when you take her hand, you make a stronger connection with your contact than you would by simply kissing her on the cheek. Erogenous zones are generally the areas with high concentrations of nerve endings, from head to toes, these include: ear lobes, lips, neck, whole of the back, nipples, waist line, hands, naughty bits, inside of thighs, feet.
There are certain areas that are very intrusive and if you go for these you will make her feel uncomfortable and everything you have worked for will be down the drain. So while still at the club, party, etc, avoid prolonged contact with her neck, boobs and privates. Unless she physically puts your hands in those areas, the most you should do is tease around them, don’t dive straight in. Instead, what you should do is explore other parts, hands, lower back, bum and legs are good for this. Run your hands over lightly, don’t just grab. The trick to making this successful is to do all of this while maintaining normal conversation (just smile more. N.B. Winking is for geeks and perverts).
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