Since I am (officially, there was a big ceremony and all) a week into the Game, and a little wiser, I thought why not give this speed dating thing a try again (last time was about a couple of years bac, too much wine, not enough ticks, not much to bother). Lets see it from a different angle here, game the women who come to your table. In some ways, the 3 minutes one can get (to make an impression) is perhaps the perfect time to dazzle someone with a clever opener, or show them that yes, you mean business.

Here is what I am planning:
Attire: Black Jeans, haven't decided on a shirt, probably black shirt or T-shirt. Black jacket, black shoes. I think this is too emo, might switch to white shirt or something more eye-catching if I can find something in shops. Also thinking of a hat, one of those Frank Sinatra hat.

Openers: Canned openers can work best here, since everyone is in a way, pre-rehearsed. A few I can think of (of he top of my head):
- So, what brings you here today? If they question you abouot the same thing, say, oh, it was on my shopping list (show them a crumpled piece of paper), and say it was something you had to do. OR say, you were here for a Pimp convention, but clearly got lost.

- So do you come here often? Might cause a surprise and perhaps evil eyes, havent thought this through.

- (Since its a lock and key event) I used to work as a locksmith, or work as a locksmith. This sort of even is my favourite.

Social Circle: It is highly likely I will be going alone, which I am quite happy with SPAM. I was thinking as I enter, or within a few minutes, walk around introducing me to everyone (women). Was thinking of using my pseudinym (PRINCE), would that work? I could say 'Raj', but imo, that gives stereotypical images to people. Or so I believe. Atleast this way they would remember me.

The questions for you:
What is the protocol on taking numbers and what not?

Anything else I should keep in mind?

Is it ok to invade other sets?

Since the age range is 24-40 (and I am 23), I am slightly intimidated by older women. Any pointers? Should I drop in the conversation that I am 23?



Anyways, this is just a high overview of things, I will drop in more questions as and when they arise. Please answer/give suggestions regarding clothing/openers and what not.

Mucho appreciated.
Prince.

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Anyone for sarging in Birmingham (or West Midlands)...gimme a shout.

I've never been to one of those. SOunds interesting I guess. I'd just dread the three minutes looking back at some broad I have no interest in.

But look,,, you've been at it for a week. So don't put a lot of presure on yourself. Honestly, your best bet is to just go in their and, in a real sense, have some fun.

If you're going to do stuff, do simple stuff. Like lead the converstion. When it starts getting boring, jump in and redirect it to something fun and interesting. I wouldn't sweat the openers too much. The whole event is set up so you don't need an opener. It's a forced 3 minute date after all. A "hi" should do it.

Work on your posture and eye-contact. You want to be a confident guy who can claim his space. Put a smile on her face. Have a couple cool stories ready. Then try to learn something about her so you have something to talk about, always working on building the attraction.

ANyways,,, go have fun. The important part is when the evening is over. Think back on how you played or how you got played. Did you get shit-tested? Where you ready? What could you have done better? What are the weak spots?

Just keep building on things you learn till it all comes "naturally".

Cheers Nighrider. Actually, it was quite a good night, surprisingly good. I have left a field report in the apt section, if you feel like reading the follow up.

Cheers

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Anyone for sarging in Birmingham (or West Midlands)...gimme a shout.

Wow, that is a really old age group. Women that age should probably be very desperate. They feel their biological clocks going crazy. I would be concerned with disease and mental issues. I am sure many look at a 23 year old male more like a son.

how old do you have to be to go on speed dating