Sorry for double posting, I posted also in relationships but im in trouble.

Hi, folks I met this girl while she was on vacations in my city. We dated some times and she went back home, then as I had some time I expent one week with her at her city, after a month she visited me again.

We are a great pair in the sense we can talk about all stuff and we are always laughthing but after 3 weeks she is gone she started to send me messages saying it was over. And she complains I cant keep interesting convos in MSN. She sent me some messages breaking up with me, from previous experiences I decided to dont freak since we were supposed to meet in 2 weeks and I really cant travel before this.

But yesterday she came with a talk about the would be out on the weekend I was supposed to go there, for me that was a signal she either found someone else or did not want to see me. And also because all this instability from her side I was not motivated to go there. As soon as I agreed we couldnt meet she got furious, I think she wanted me to beg to go. And now she seems to have blocked me from MSN, facebook and stuff so I dont know if I can contact her. But she said she would be in my city again this weekend (causeshe wants to talk with me I seriously believe), I really would like to sit and talk with her.

What do you suggest me? I can provide more info if you want;

Dude dude dude lol you need to ditch her....I know it is hard and you like her alot but right now she has no respect for you and you are being an AFC....If I wer you I would say "I dont need to meet with you...If you dont want a relationship thats that cool I have nothing eles to say" dont be a dick and freak out because that imature....dont tell her how much you like her....just tell her fine that cool have a good life....then go date other women.

Honest dude this is all you can do and she wont expect it at all! she wants you to beg like a chump so she can say "oh he was to needy" ect....be a man.

If she contects you then say "I have anything to say to you....I was really disappointed that you blocked me on msn and me cell but thats cool any ways have a nice life".

This will put even more distance between me and the girl exactly the opposite I want. We really like each other but distance relationships are not easy to start imho. And I'm blocked on MSN, facebook and prolly email, I will wait to call her until tommorow to try meeting her up when she is in town, if she comes. I would like if we could keep it cool, like seeing each other as much as possible but I need some time now, im starting a new job, im working 8->20 so I need to adjust myself so I can get resources to see her if you understand what I mean. And she has been undecided pushing me while I try to make peace and calm things down. This hurts me and sincerilly I got tired.
What kind of usefull advice you could give me so I can meet up with her and try to make things better?

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