Hi guys,

I'm 22 years old guy going to NY club this weekend for the first time in my life. I'm a virgin and I don't drink. I have no club experience and I don't know how is it going to be so I'm kinda frightened although I'm going with a friend of mine who's experienced. Seriously, I don't know what am I going to do there . But I know that I'm looking for a relationship with a nice and pretty girl. Like I said before, I don't do sex and don't drink but I can do foreplay and enjoy with a girl.

I'm new here in USA, so I don't know. Is it possible to find a nice serious pretty girl in a club who's not there for the sex and one night stands ? or am I wasting my time going there.

you definitely can find a girl who doesn't want a OST(one night stand)

The best advice i can give is just go there and have fun, its your first time at a club, don't let it overwhelm you, and do get discouraged if you do not see allot of success, just try and get familiar with the whole environment,

Unless chicks buy me a drink, I don't drink and sarge, so it is something that can be done

Good luck, hope you have a good time

-Dre

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just sarge


and he means ONS not OST

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agree! but i would suggest to just go... i mean.. since you're already know what goes on in the club.. you're there to have fun.. if you're comfortable in the dance floor then make that your spot! when you go to a club.. you don't necessarily have to sarge.. do you think that everytime a women goes to a club with her friends.. they're looking for a guy to take home?.. why does it have to be different with guys..

If anything, just go for the learning experience. Next time you head out, you won't have to say that you've never been to a club before.

I think that most of the time, girls don't go out just to find a man. For me and my friends, it's just a chance to get dressed up, dance, and blow off some steam. Basically, a break from a long week of work/ school. Some girls probably are on the hunt. Others are probably single and think that maybe tonight they will meet the right guy. Not all of us are predators just because we're out in a club.

By the way, my first clubbing experience at age 18 sucked. It was $20 just to get in, so crowded there was barely room to walk, and they played nothing but top 40 hip hop. Some lady stepped on my toes and some dude spilled a drink on me. Since then I've found all kinds of cool places that I love visiting- last night I was in an awesome dive bar/brewpub with about 1000 different kinds of beer and a crazy SPAM. All I'm saying is don't give up on clubbing if you don't like the place you go this weekend. This is just practice.