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PostPosted: Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:46 pm 
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Chick wants to hang out tomorrow but didn't confirm the hour yet. What do you do in this situation?

I think she's a flake. What do you guys think?


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 01, 2009 1:26 am 
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thats a tricky one, i guess you can put a time restriction on yourself like
"Ok, I'm free from such n such to such n such" and then not only have you shown that you got other stuff to do, you can make the time you want to meet her.


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 01, 2009 2:38 am 
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Fuck!

She was really a flake.

I sent a text "Local mall, 14:45, in front of the cine, ok?"

And she replied with "Oh my dear... We'll have to reschedule our movie... I just arrived from the hospital... They still don't know what it is... I'm quite bad... I hope you understand... a big kiss!"

She talked to me earlier that she had some kind of allergic reaction.

Now I don't know if it's genuine or if it's a flake.

What should I do in this situation?

I'm thinking about just ignoring her until she reinitializes conversation, and so I ask if she's better and see if she has any intention in rescheduling.


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 01, 2009 4:37 am 
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I'm a little sensitive to the flaking crap that girls try to pull, but maybe that's because I've experienced a few instances of it recently.

I suggest you use the TWO STRIKE RULE! What she just did counts as strike one. One more false step before the date and she's out! I feel that some girls just want the attention and like dragging you along. Don't give them the satisfaction of doing so. Also, don't act upset or go nuts; just stay calm.

In my experiences, if the girl doesn't help confirm the time (i.e. you give the time and place, and she locks it down, possibly repeating the time and place as if she's writing it down), that foreshadows trouble. Don't change your schedule just to accommodate her either because she hasn't deserved any special SPAM yet.


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i personally got the three strike rule...


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 01, 2009 12:59 pm 
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My cuz once gave a girl 15 strikes!

Typical AFC!


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 01, 2009 3:05 pm 
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Thanks for the comments!

Yeah... I think I'll adopt the 2 strike rule. But since she said "I hope you understand" I'll leave her in doubt if I really understand, by not contacting her.

When she tries to contact me I'll act as if nothing happened and give her another chance to meet me. If she won't, then I delete the number.


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 04, 2009 9:46 pm 
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so how do you reply when she flakes once and then twice saying she has to reschedule because other stuff came up?

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And she replied with "Oh my dear... We'll have to reschedule our movie... I just arrived from the hospital... They still don't know what it is... I'm quite bad... I hope you understand... a big kiss!"

She talked to me earlier that she had some kind of allergic reaction.
Your allergic to me? I didn't know sexiness was so contagious :wink:


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K-closed this girl today. :D


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Good stuff!


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now u'r contagious!


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