so I was reading some post about body language and one of the things that is supposed to indicate interest is big pupils. People have been shown to unconsciously rate faces with larger pupils as friendlier. It's one of the reasons why candlelight is romantic.

Well I was reminded of that article when this girl showed me how to enlarge and shrink pupils at will. I don't mean for anyone to attempt to use this tric to subconsciously influence anyone (you'd probably look a bit idiotic, plus you can't see much when your doing it) but its a fun trick... at the very least you can get someone to look deep into your eyes If nothing else you can freak people out. This works better if you have light colored eyes.

K here is what you do...go up to a mirror, then relax you b ody. Lose focus in your eyes, force them to be blurry (but don't go cross eyed if you can help it). Your pupils are now dilated.

Now, open your eyes WIDE and suddenly focus as HARD as you can at your eye in the mirror. Make the picture as CLEAR as you can. You can feel your eye muscles tug a bit ... your facial expression will probably look angry.

You will see your pupils rapidly contract into unusually tiny points.

If you have blue or light green eyes like the person who showed me, this rapid change will look kind of creepy...if nearly black like mine then not so much, and I don't recommend running off and showing everyone, but you can still see it for yourself.

This is something I use in the field, building rapport eye contact with huge pupils works wonders.

Practice lots though or you will just look like you have a lazy eye or something. Also choose when to use it wisely, it is the male equivalent of the look you get when you tell a girl you are in a band.

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i see heres a question

how do you keep your pupils from getting dilated .. my pupils dilate everywerhe ..how do you keep that from happeneing

stop shooting up

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some people have naturally dilated pupils in the same way some peoples pupils are huge a lot of the time. SHort of walking round with your eyes out of focus 24/7 I would jsut ignore it

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Big pupils are attractive.

Apart from low light, there is an easier way. Just close your eyes for a couple of seconds. Then open them and they will be much larger but shrink slowly. You can open them then make strong eye contact with HB and they will seem much larger!

You could use this is a game to see what she prefers. It doesn't matter what she says your getting great intimacy with her deeply looking into your eyes and vice versa! For sure to build attraction.

I swear if this stops my fucking coloured contacts (peacocking tool) clouding up my eyes i will actually love you long time. oh and BY THE WAYYYY - Big pupils are not proven to be attractive - here is the basic mechanism behind that theory however -
When you are attracted/in love with someone, your body modifies some of its behaviours (not talking about your penis). In fact the way your body behaves is similar to when we are fearful, increased heart rate etc. ANYWAYS when YOUR attracted to someone your pupils dilate. FACT. Whether the mode of adress of this has just been confused with a way of establishing attraction or not I have no idea.

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