| Here is a post that may confuse and upset some of you.
The game has become very much about negs, false timeconstraints, push-pull, willingness to walk away, you are the prize...
YES! That is correct, they are important parts of PU. NO, they are not the only things you need.
In some of my previous posts I have gone on and on about buying temperature etc. Well, here is another way to kill the misconceptions of pushing her away.
In order to make har even care if you do these things or not you need to hook her! HOOK her! You need to make her feel good around you. If you go up to a guy on the street and show him a brown paperbag saying "You cannot have this" he is not gonna want it, it could be dogs**t for all he knows. If you instead show him a bag of candy, let him try one and then say "you cant have this" he is gonna want it even more.
Same thing with girls.
It is not enough to push, you need to pull. A girl has to feel good in your company all the time from the attraction phase and ever after. Cat string theory is based on that the cat wants the string. But dangle it too high and he will lose interest. Same with girls. Be too unreachable and she will take her matters elsewhere.
If you are gonna listen to peoples advice to make a freezeout or negs you got to make sure that she wants you, that she is attracted.
How many relationships have ended just because the man is constantly debating all the things that are wrong instead of showing the girl why she should be with him?
Be careful, do not take everything we say here literally, we try to help but you are the one in the situation, you know better than us. We can only give general pointers based on how we would behave in the situation we believe that you are in. We assume that you got attraction. We assume that she is interested in some way... Use your brains, think...
Ezo
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CHAT
whole heartedly agree 
