Hey folks. I tried to game this girl a few weeks ago who lives in my building. We are both 19 years old, and i got the LJBF speech, which was disappointing but i did not give up. Last night, i was fueled by monster and diet pills (cutting weight for my sport) and i was up on facebook until roughly 130 in the morning. This girl messaged me on facebook and asked if i wanted to come hang out with her. So i went over to here place and we just kind of hung out. She is COMPLETELY against the whole "touchy-feely" thing, hates to kiss, and just is not affectionate at all. I was curious about why she didnt like to kiss...so i asked her about it, and i find out that she has only kissed two guys ever, and never did anything more than that. She is a farmers daughter, so she has always been sheltered. Well, i am shocked by this news because she is legit HOT. No doubt in my mind she is the hottest girl i have ever hooked up with. Well, in my mind, i had an immediate goal to get her to come out of her shell a little so i kino escalated a little bit, just a little playful wrestling and whatnot. She then told me about how this guy she is "with" turned out to be a huge scumbag. Well, i took this as an opportunity and ran a little of a BF destroyer and talked to her about this. Well, soon she was cuddling with me, which is a huge step for her. I decided that the last thing i needed to do to see if i could get her out of her shell is to have her kiss me back if i attempted. I was playing around a little, and kind of playfully kissed her but she didnt kiss me back because shes "not easy" so i took this as a challenge. I ended up kind of biting her earlobe and she seemed to like it, so i continued. Soon she opened up completely, and was on top of me. Now, she has never let a guy touch her...anywhere really. I got her half naked, but she could not go farther, because she says she feels stupid because she doesnt know what to do, or how to do anything so she is going to be terrible. Any suggestions on how to break through this defense? Im sorry about the length, but i thought i needed to tell the whole story

--Grappler

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that same type of situation came up with me last year too
except i was her first kiss and first everything
and i approached it about the same type of way that you did
to get her to go further, you kind of just got to keep going at it and slowly build up
becuase most first timers are nervous as hell
if she says something like "i dont know what to do" or whatever, you should just say something close to "well everyone has a first time...etc" somehting to make her feel really comfortable and make her feel that she has invested this with the right guy

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