Let me give you the back story, I’ve known this girl for a while, never really done anything with her physically but I’m trying to reverse that. So last Thursday I texted her and asked her if she wanted to come over after class, she told me she couldn’t till a later time. I told her that I would text her back if I was still available. I never did text her back but she sent me a text asking me if I wanted to go out that night, I told her that I was already set at where I was and could not make it. So the next day I texted her to see what she was doing. She never responded. The next day I started nagging her about it

Me. YOU SUCK
Her. ?
Me. For trying to play hard to get this whole weekend.
Her.? I did no such thing! We didn’t even make plans
Me. Lies! You totally ignored me, which is even worse.
Her. That’s bs! and you know it.
Her. That’s bs! and you know it.
Me. Okay you don’t need to send doubles, I get all my messages the first time, unlike someone.
Her. F you! And I only sent that once you know my phones effed up

For some reason I didn’t feel like I was enough of an asshole the day before so I sent her another text the next day

Me. So I’m still waiting…
Her. For?
Me. Your apology

time passes

Me. Hum since your phone is broken ill give you the benefit of the doubt and pretend I got it, so apology accepted!

You want to take the frame that youre the prize, and that youre fun. In the context of the little 160 character limit of txting, it's easy to be misinterpreted or be taken harder than you meant. It seems it sounded more like insults and whining to her, putting her off. You want to have her see that you dont stress over chicks.

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"Do not follow to where the path may lead. Go, instead, where there is no path and leave a trail"
-Ralph Waldo Emerson

.....i'd say you just failed

like you're needy and you're mad at her

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

He's got nothing to lose now, I'd say try and turn it around. It'd be good practice and a learning experience. I'd like to see if he can do it and how he succeded or not.

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"Do not follow to where the path may lead. Go, instead, where there is no path and leave a trail"
-Ralph Waldo Emerson

You need to change the frame STAT bro. From an outsider (and from her) perspective, it doesn't sound like you're teasing her for being a flake. it sounds like you're geniunely pissed off and needy.

my text game (if you can call it that!) is second-to-none but I'm really not sure how you'd get out of this one man..

I was kinda mad at her, not for that particular incident but for everything else. Idk should I just stop communicating with her altogether. I feel like everytime i'm with her she just pisses me off which kinda sucks cuz I like her.

You know... Push-Pull also has a Pull in it... You can not just push her away, then she is gonna find someone else to play with.

People always forget it but you need to make her feel good around you as well.