Enough with "how to take compliemtns"- this is how



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PostPosted: Mon Mar 30, 2009 6:46 pm 
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Lately I have seen a massive amounts of threads acrcoss the forums about how to take a compliment, how to react when a target says something nice to you etc etc.
So for the benefit of everyone THIS is how you take a compliment! Yes the funny one liners will make you and everyone around laugh, but the target will think "wont bother doing that again, everyone just laughed at me". If you make people feel bad for making you feel good, think things are going to go well? no.

Thank you, smile and kino. continue conversation.

Let me break it down:
"Thank you" - this shows you didn't just ignore her and what you do next is in reaction to her comment
*smile* - this is non-verbal communication saying you liked what just happened
*kino* - this is like the reward, she did something you like and something that helps the interaction escalate so you kino or give an IOI to basically say "what you just did increased how attracted i am to you do it more".
"continue talking" - your used to being complimented, it doesn't knock you off balence. Add a bit more flirty sexual frame to your conversation since things are going well. This also shows that when the target does something that helps the interaction escalate you put more in as well.

Thank you, *smile* *kino* continue conversation.

Madals

p.s. if you have a better idea, please don't just post one liners without justification of why you think they are better.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 30, 2009 6:59 pm 
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Bravo. Enough said already. K.I.S.S.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 30, 2009 10:05 pm 
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Exactly bro


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 30, 2009 10:07 pm 
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how/where would you kino?


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 30, 2009 10:40 pm 
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how/where would you kino?
Tbh it doesn't really matter. The kino is simply the positive she gets for doing something positive for you.
Basically, your escalating the interaction more because she just did the same. If that pattern increases escalation will get faster and faster.
A simple touch on the arm is fine for starts :)


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 31, 2009 12:01 am 
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what do you say to a girl .. who says she wants you to sing ...


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 31, 2009 1:29 am 
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what do you say to a girl .. who says she wants you to sing ...
shes is trying to make you jump thought one of her hoops, either say a neg, or make her jump in one of your hoops before you jump in hers, either way usually works

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what do you say to a girl .. who says she wants you to sing ...
Please stay on topic.


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:39 am 
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you pretty much hit it right on the spot, i dont think its much more to say :)

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