Ok so this is the situation I was in the library studying in a study room when a HB8 came in and told me that this study room was booked, I talked to her for a bit and right away got her number, she is from Spain and speaks english decent at best.

So I waited a day and I decided to call her, first time no pickup, then a couple hours later I called her just before I was going out with some friends... still no answer, but then I got a text like 10 mins after the text was from a random number it said

Her: Hi this is Maria, how are u? sorry I ran out of credits on my cell phone:) hope to see you soon;)

Me: Hi this is Joe I thought it sucked we didnt get to finish our talk the
other day remember?

Then I never got a reply

So I waited a couple more days till friday I called her and again no answer.

So i texted her: Hola! me and a few friends are gonna go out for drinks later you should come with, let me know call me


Her: Hola! how are u! sorry I cant go out tonight but tomorrow I am going to roadhouse, have fun

Me: That sucks we should get together soon, you never pick up your phone eh?

Then I never got an answer, not sure what I should do next if anyone could help it would be great! thanks overall I think she is into me cause i got a bit of kino from her at first when i got her number however I didnt build very much rapport with her before I left because I was in a hurry to meet up with my study group.

"Hi this is Maria, how are u? sorry I ran out of credits on my cell phone:) hope to see you soon;)"

should of negged her about how she cant afford it,

"Hi this is Joe I thought it sucked we didnt get to finish our talk the
other day remember?"

sounds needy, remember you want to act as if she doesn't matter, you have a great life with out her in it, it would benefit her to come to you, not the other way around

"Hola! me and a few friends are gonna go out for drinks later you should come with, let me know call me"

take out the "let me know call me", you are going there no matter what, again, act as if you don't care if she comes, you are just being polite, if she wants to be around a fun guy she will come

"Hola! me and a few friends are gonna go out for drinks later, you and some of your friends should come tag along"

"Hola! how are u! sorry I cant go out tonight but tomorrow I am going to roadhouse, have fun"

at this point i would just say your doing something crazy tomorrow night, even if you aren't, then wait a week or two then start over


"That sucks we should get together soon, you never pick up your phone eh?" no no no, that has needy written all over it

just wait two weeks, try to open her again

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