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Hey dude,

Nice to see the young'ins learning pickup. It's kinda funny because if I've got your age right girls are still developing their sexual organs - some of them can't even get wet yet!

Anyway, I quoted the two questions above because even though you're in 9th grade, I think you know the answer to such obvious questions so I don't really know why you asked them.

As for the deal about rejection etc, yes, college game is massively different from cold approaches outside institutions; trust me, I learnt the hard way, as did my wing. You start picking up college girls (in your college) and sure, you'll have some success, but the bad rep and rumours that come with it is just not worth it, really.

Instead, work on getting legit relationships with college girls and have fun inside of them. About rejection - well, it's the age old risk every man has to take. A right of passage, I guess. The most you can do is use your PU skills to ensure least chance of rejection. To be honest looking back on my college days, I can't believe HOW STUPID I WAS not just to 'go for it' sometimes. Just do it man, 99% of the time she will say yes. The more you get rejected too, the more you will realise next time when the girl will say yes and when she will say no. You will develop your skills of calibration. It will be so obvious.

I met my first girlfriend in maths class. From what she told me, if I asked her out a couple weeks after we met she would have said yes. I didn't really bother. Then I started really getting the butterflies for her 6 months later. Between that time and another 4-5 months, I finally asked her out. And that was only because she accidentally gave it away that she really liked me. I could have saved almost ONE WHOLE YEAR if I just asked her out earlier. Partly I was afraid of rejection, partly I was afraid of what all my friends would say as I was popular - there was high expectations from me. It only enriched my life tenfold. Remember the man has to lead, always. I time I believe you will feel this is more of a privilege than a burden.

Happy sarging, and don't let PU take over your life. Girls are human beings too

Social proof has a lot to do with getting girls (atleast good looking ones) in High school.

If your in 9th grade, I would join some cool clubs so you can interact with the older students. Try to hang with the "cooler" crews, but be friendly towards everyone, even goths. Be a likeable guy.

Back in High school, I didn't talk to many girls for that same reason, I was afraid everyone would know when I was rejected. Screw that!

Who cares if a girl says no. Don't be phased by her, or people saying stupid rants about you. Because the next weekend when your gettin with a hottie, no one will remember.

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