so there was this girl in this group im in that was into me. i eventually started gamin her, bein the man and shit. we were talkin about sex, i told her i wanted to have sex in one of the business building and shit.

anyway she even told me this weekend her roommate wasnt going to be around so im thinking ++

but anyway, she sent me a text telling me something was my fault and like an idiot i didnt counter good enough, i kind of agreed w/ it, then iwas askin her last nite if she wanted to chill.

basically i tihnk what i did was game her.. then i felt confident enough that she wanted me and i started bein "nice guy" again, now i tihnk i fucked it up and am not going to get shit out of it. i called her last nite after she wasnt answerin my txts and she was at some party and she said she couldnt hear me on the phone and shit .. i ended up just hangin up.

do you think i lost it? and should i just move on now?

Be cool.

Don't text her or call her untill she does. The more attention you seek, the more needy you look.

yea she actually txted me like an hour ago, i was short w/ her, didnt ask her anything about her nite or anything like that.. then just told her what i was doin tonite.. that was it .. she said she wanted to see me tonite so i'll see where that goes

im just gunna take it easy

Don't let anthing phase you

so update on this situation, the girl ends up txtin me yesterday

her: how was ur nite last nite
me: good
her: whered you go
me: some party
later on...
her: are you mad at me or something
me: no why would u think that?
her: i dont know uve been short w/ me all day
me: naw im just kind of out of it today

later on the in the nite she txts me
her: what r u doin tonite i want to see you
me: goin to some party
her: alrite call me later

i go to a party, grind w/ some girls that i guess were playing w/ me, go to another party that kid i know is at .. walk in and see this girl im tlakin to there w/ him. didnt know what to do realy, so iwas just like fuck this, and ingnored her the whole time and just chilled w/ my buddy, and ended up killin it in beer pong.

i still dont get why the fuck she did that.. but i dont care, im just going to pretend like i dont even know who she is .. i'm not playing fucking games like that

right on bro.

the ability to see that something isn't worth your time, is a major step in becoming a more consistent PUA. i think you'll find that keeping this mentality will give you the most overall opportunities to capitalize on.

also, sometimes girls will test us by doing things like what happened to you. there are many ways to react, and some are better than others. when AFC's like a girl, they will let a girl get away with almost anything, because they think that's goig to help their chances. the truth is that calling a girl out for innappropriate behavior, and showing that you are not going to be taken advantage of, will eventually impress her much more.

damn this some good stuff, keep us updated

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If your going to question me, you better have a theory behind your argument.

"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself."
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Let me get this straight...
She calls you, asks you why you aren't talking as much as you normally do, wants to see you and...You say you're headed to a party and you grind with a couple girls there and then go over to another party. Where you see her out with another guy and now you're pissed about it.

Seriously?

Are you that...well, I'll be nice here.

You passed up the opportunity to talk to her and went to some party without inviting her. She decided to go to another party with some guy. You two clearly aren't dating, nor do you have any reason to believe that she'd only be seeing you...I mean, you're seeing other people, or at least trying to (grinding on random girls), so why wouldn't she?

Plus, she gave you the chance to set something up for that night, and you played it cool.

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And I lift my glass to the awful truth
Which you can't reveal to the years of youth
Except to say it isn't worth a dime

dude! really? are you STILL on this girl? or is this a different one? in any case . . . remember what I told you "NEXT!"

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