I'm joining this forum for a couple of reasons, but all of them boil down to me wanting to learn more. I'm really interested in human sexuality and psychology, just a hobby, basically, so I'm investigating dating from a female perspective, too. I've also been dating a guy who used pick-up to meet me. Everything is going well, and he knows that I know, but I want to delve a little deeper into our first encounters. I'm also bisexual, and so are a lot of my friends. I've never had any trouble meeting quality men, but meeting women is so so different. I just want to know more about meeting people in general. That's about it, for now!

I feel...for a lack of better word....violated.

<Runs away and signs up to the Sex and the City forum>

Well, welcome anyways, hope you find what you are looking for.

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Hi Rishi

Welcome to the site, theres some other girls who are frequent
posters on here so you dont have to feel alone, ha

I am actually fascinated.

I have a very good female friend (an inlaw, actually I know very well from my 10 year marriage -Im newly separated) that I've always been in her "close Friend" zone (never mattered) but recently it has evolved into more of an intermittant casual/no strings sex thing on top of that -without losing the friendship. I'm paying close attention to what she tells me honestly about her feelings about her boyfriend and I tell her about my recent hookups (all nicely without me becoming attached to her or vice versa from her) and I can stand to learn much from my experience with her now. I was even with her when I hooked up with a woman at a bar a few weeks ago so we've even been thinking of ways that a woman and a man can be each other's wing's! Crazy as it sounds, but I already see "social validation and pre-approval at play there as a tactic.

I think to understand a women's mind, if you have one as a resource where you can just simply ask her and expect a straight and honest answer wth no bullshit that's a valuable thing. I'm a newb here, but welcome to you!

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Violated? At first I LoL'd, then I thought, "No no no! I don't mean anything I say in a negative way." Anyway, thanks for the responses. So far this looks like a constructive and helpful forum, and I'm really into that. <3

hehe, lemme put it this way, I have an image of this forum as a cigar club for boys, who sit around discussing the intricacies of female psyche, along with playing poker games and watching F-TV. To find a girl amongst us (for me) is rather unexpected. But like Impuls pointed out, I am sure there can be mutual learning from this.

Oh, and hearts at the end of sentences...lol. You will definitely stand out, and not in a negative way!

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After you become more involved in the forum, talk to our female moderator, Zip, about joining the currently private women's section of the forum.

lol, ya. You may want to hold back on those emotes heheh >.<

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"Do not follow to where the path may lead. Go, instead, where there is no path and leave a trail"
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hey, welcome always good to have a women's perspective on things up here, sometimes the testosterone levels get a little high, and that dash of estrogen saves face for people. And as for women for wings. . . the best thing ever.

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Wow...deja vue...
You date a PUA boy who you have no problem with?
It sounds like me!
I'm Cinn, one of the many girls here. First thing you should do is PM Zip and get access to the secret girls-only forum so you can get acquainted with some of the other girls here.
Also, pop on chat sometime, it's the best way to get noticed and get quick trouble-shooting advice.
Welcome and I hope you stick around. ^__^

Cinnamon

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I am bewildered. Really didn't know there were quite a few girls here!

And Cinn, now I understand the Poon cartoon (that rhymes) as part of your sig. Duh!

Yours (not) truly,

Prince

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Anyone for sarging in Birmingham (or West Midlands)...gimme a shout.

Welcome to the forum. We hope you stick around and contribute to the site. I'm a fellow girl here as well so if you need any help or have any questions getting settled here don't be afraid to PM me.

Welcome. I'm the female moderator here. If you need anything, let me know.

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Wonder if it's not too late to "privately" join the women's area....heck....we are all out to see the female perspective and solve the female mind's mystery anyways....right? ...j/k.

Welcome R.

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