i meet this girl last semester who i hung out with quite a bit, after a while i finally asked her out only to be told that i miss interpreted our relationship..so i shrugged it off and stopped inviting her to hang out, i would still talk to her accasionally to keep her from thinking that i was pissed off or whatever...then she started inviting me to do stuff with her, something she never did, i declined a few times till yesterday...i acted nice when i was with her but did not flirt, she never started flirting so i figured i wouldn't either...i was kinda disappointed, i thought maybe the freezout would work and she would become more sexually attracted to me but i guess not..

i know i still have deep feelings for this girl and it sucks because i now have a good number of good looking girls who are very interested in me, but for some reason i just can't get over this beautiful bitch who only sees me as a friend, i guess i just want something that i can't have and it sucks balls! what should i do?

Looks like she's gaming you. LOL.

If you haven't really attracted her yet, then you prob moved to soon towards asking her out?!
Not really sure what you've done or haven't done to try and create attraction yet....but....

I wouldn't get oneitis...and just GFTOW....go fuck ten other women....then see if she's still got that effect on you....from the looks of it, your already on that track to gettin those ten women....just be wary of the LJBF zone...there are lots of topics on how to build attraction and avoid the friend zone...so I'll just leave it at that.

Remember, attraction is not a choice.

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The hotter they are, the harder they fall....for me.

I think you just didn't game her at all, so she does what all girls do in these situations (as they seem to know nothing about men and think only as far ahead as their nose length) she put you in the friendzone.

In this situation I would just get some kino going and watch out if you get IOIs. Also having a few more girls around that like you and she knows about it can help to create attraction.

I think flirting with all (not just one) her friends can work, because if they talk positively about and like you, then she might change her mind a little faster. Just be sure to not make one of her friends fall for you... that is bad (unless she would be a good alternative). The friends thing is a bit risky, but I've seen it working before.

Instead of focusing the love spread it... and she will know what she is missing.

if none of this works, make a big effort and move on.

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Hut

well i have pretty much decided to move on, if she's not going to put an effort towards any kind of progression then i won't either...i'm a bit confused on the whole part of her gaming me, what does she get out of it...