I am really shy and not good around women but work with a lot that I would like to get to know a lot better maybe even date. There's a girl from work that I have liked for a while but we have never really hung out just her and I and I'm hoping after I read the book and post on this forum that I will be able to be comfortable with her. I'm just looking for some advice as to how to ask her to hang out and how to get her to be my girlfriend because we are already friends from work and we've worked together for a couple years. I know it won't happen instantly, but I'm just wondering where I can start, so I can get off on the right foot. By the with, is that book a good idea to read? Thanks for all your help!

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there you go!

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Haha, thanks but like I said I already know her as a friend but I wanna become closer with her, it's not like this is a random girl I have never met before. Hope that cleared things up a bit

read all the sticky post before posting questions... no one likes a lazy ass

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