Gonna keep this short. Just need to know for learning curve.

Met a hot girl last saturday night. Went really well, established good attraction.

Text her couple days later. During that exchange she wanted to know if I wanted to meet up. Said that sounds like fun. No text back.

So I rang her next day with success and said i was in town again this weekend lets meet up. She said 'yeah ok'.

Few days later had a text saying 'i don't think i told you sat , but i am in a relationship. I would still like to meet up because you are a really funny guy' I just took the mickey a little saying 'steady on we only met once'. Few more generic texts.

Then on sat she sent me text saying 'you will think i am a complete loser not sure when i will be in'. I text back saying 'well yeah kinda. Plus your useless, disorganised, a general pain let me know if i missed anything!' (she was very confident)

No text back. I text her saying 'having good time and was she in town yet', no reply and she did not meet us during our night out. Not a big deal, but would like to know if i was too harsh with the text even tho it was a joke or did she just get cold feet (does have a bf)? Also have i blown it with her for the future?

Feedback will be much appreciated

I think when she told ya she has a boyfriend, you could have said something different, from your side you seemed cold and disinterested completely into her, but this if for me

Showing a bit more interest may have made her realise that I thought she was a cool girl to be around.

I wanted to show her that I was cool with her having a boyfriend and that we could still meet up and chat (no pressure). Then I was going to show more interest in her. Did not work out how I planned

yea, maybe you should have been more offensive right away. i still think you played it good thought. it didn't work out with her, but would have with another girl...

dilequeno i think you maybe right. With another girl all could have slotted nicely into place. oh well win some and lose some.