There's this girl I get a long great with from one of my classes. She gives me a lot of IOIs and whenever we're together in class or on campus we seem to have a great time talking and joking around. Whenever I try to arrange a meeting with her off-campus she tells me she'd love to get together with me and one time even committed to a day. But, when I call her or text her outside of school to arrange or confirm our plans she completely ignores me.

I'm thinking of trying a freeze out, which is a technique I've had mixed success with in the past, however, in those situations I was doing it to girls I didnt have to see twice a week. All I had to do was ignore their texts or calls for a week or so then pop back into their life with an excuse that I could use as a DHV such as an exciting vactation or an old friend who had come to visit me. But here I have to actually do it while she's sitting less than a foot away from trying to chat.

How do I proceed?

you dont have to give her the cold shoulder, just when your in class talk to her and thats it after class stop communication, but if she is like texting you every 5 mins you gotta respond a bit to not seem like your ignoring her a freeze out is meant to make her miss your company or whatever not to be a dickhead...


in class if she mentions a hang out just say sure that be cool sometime but ill have to get back at you cause i got plans, throw in htere if you want well it cant be saturday got a date........and if you dont got a date lie cause she will never find out the truth........

so talk in class and avoid the hang out after for awhile.......


let me know what you think

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Saviour,

Thanks for the advice, but I think you sort of missed my point.

The problem is that she treats me like her best friend in class or whenever we bump into one another on campus (which is better that the way she treats most people in class), but treats me like a stranger when I try to call or text her.

The only leverage I have is our interactions on campus, which means I have to do during that specific period of time.

Quite honestly, yes I want to get in her pants, but I enjoy her company enough where I could see myself becoming "just friends" with her. However what I don't want is to spend the next 8 weeks simply being used to distract her from her boredom during class.

dude, is this the same girl as your other post?

i just noticed now

tell me how it works out