in about a month im leaving for basic training and AIT and i wont be back for another 6 months and then possibly deploying as soon as i get back.

im still a virgin and i kno a few girls that i wanna pull an F-close with, but i was wondering how i should go about this.

i talked to a buddy of mine, and he tried to give me advice and said that i should be honest and up front about it, let em kno i dont wanna relationship, that i just wanna have sex once before i leave...but i dont know about that

what should i do?

thanks

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[quote="Swoop"]This is priceless! If anything will get you laid more easily then saying you wanna have sex before you go off to war, I want to know! My buddy says he did this a few times and it worked like a charm. He is on this forum and I'll have him give you his two cents.

Normally I would be against this sort of thing, but you might die, and no one should die a virgin, imo. I would keep it as on off hand comment, in a jokingly way "Ya well really I would like to have sex at least once before I go of to war... (said with a chuckle and a headshake as exactly if you were speaking to yourself outloud)." I would think mentioning it more than once would be weird so dont do that. You may be ask about your deployment, just be honest but then change the subject. Dont dwell outloud on getting laid cus that is chump.

Of course it never hurts to just run solid game, no 'crutches' so to speak...

Thanks for your service. Give'm hell!

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dude im in the Aus Army, and im in Afghan SPAM. before i went, i went out and got so much. but i wouldnt say ur in the army, cos ur not yet, and after all, u might not get deployed for a couple of yrs... its true, if u start saying sit like ur going to the army and getting deployed they will ask questions, and u wont be able to answer with out bullshitting, they will see through this. if u need practice to root, go to a really good female friend, one u never shown any intrest in, and one who wont get attached or fuck up ur friendship, just joke about it and get it into her head, dont let her know u never done it. use ur friends, and she may end up being a fuck baddy, this will build confidence and make it easyer for u to pick up.... only do this if u cant pick up. any way have fun at AIT. haha it sucks.

Hey, I wanna get laid by tomorrow. What should I do? And no, I don't want to pay for it.

yea , i never paid for it. ok so tomorro, well wats tomorro, party, clubin, date, whats the plans for tomorro

I was being sarcastic.

..... fuck u lol

i didnt know they let you use the internet in afghanistan... do you have a certain amount of time allowed to access webpages?


btw first post

Na i have a couple of days to chill, and they dutch we share the base with have wireless internet on this. u pay about 25 Euro for 7 hrs. its not to bad, but its a little slow

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dude ur in the perfect situation. im not in the military, but i always used to think "its so easy for guys to get laid in the military before they go off to war or get deployed because a girl hears that and immidieatly wants to be that girl"

id say first off even tho u only have a month, dont put so much pressure on urself about it because that could fuck up ur game by thinkin too much.

if i was u id look at it like this take a second and think about what ur doin "ur goin to be deployed, and ur in the military" = u are the fuckin man, no one else is doin that, majority of ppll ur gunna be around at places with girls at least so that makes u better. just tell urself u dont care about getin shut down ur gunna get laid and ur gunna find a girl to do it. if one doenst want to have it, go for the next and so on. just make sure u dont come off too like sappy, be proud about what ur doin and when u tell girl that be confident and feel like u have a huge penis as u tell them ur going to be fighting in a war. that alone should give them the impression that ur the man

how long after training did you get deployed?

well was fucken unlucky, i missed east timor cos my knee fucked up, then i missed a trip to Iraq cos i ended up getting a knee op, which after coming out of hospital i made a mad story and used it as a opener... some how it worked, but i finaly got my afghan trip in my 2nd yr of being in the army, including basic and infantry training