On a number of occasions I have found that some women react very badly when they discover the other person is a PUA or have become aware of the game. I have been accused of being 'immoral' and have been told what I do is 'bad shit' and 'bad karma. I just laugh at this because my creed is leave them better than how you found them.

I was joking with a female friend recently about a night out sarging. She understands the game because I have told her a little about how it works. A friend of hers rudely interrupted the conversation to flat out abuse me and tell me that her friend was too good for me. Lets just say she went off.

If I had said that I met a girl the night before and pashed her and might meet her again I would've gotten praised. The fact I said I 'gamed a HB8' and 'k closed her' was enough to set off a violent tirade and be called all sorts of names. Again its water off a duck's back but I was wondering if anyone else has encountered this extreme reaction and how they deal with it?

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I think most PUAs who mention it to people get this, it took me a good few months just to stop my female housemates saying it was bullshit and ripping me for dressing well. Now they have realized I am happy and getting results so have mysteriously gone quiet.

I mentioned it to a girl as well and with a little sweet talking she was fine with it. I think its a good thing to tell the people around you but you will get shit for it to begin with.

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Through experience, this is how (and why) the sub-sections of society will respond in a conversation about The Game:

The Friends: Most of them will initially (and perhaps for a longer time, till they see the result) will laugh it off. They weill not give youan credit since they would think that its all BS and they are happy as they are, even though ironoically, as they are in the same position from whence you emerged. They will come around.

The 'Girl' Friends: A similar reaction is expected, but don't think you can game her once she knows the rules, from you. If some girl who already knows the rules from someone else is gamed, then she wouldnt mind. But you cant expect to tell a girl all secret tricks and then try and impress her with magic.

The Family: They would hardly care, and if anything, will probably be happy that you are happy. I think as OP mentioned, they also believe in the notion that if you want to get your way with someone, its better to leavea person in a better state than where you found them.

The HB's: Now here is an interesting case. They get 'Gamed' all the time and don't mind, yet, as soon as someone brings it up, they are all up in arms about the morality of it. These are the same girls who use shit test to sort out the wheat from the chaff, to get their way and mentally (and physically) suck the life out of so called men. Hypocrisy at its peak, and deception at its deepest. Do not..and I repeat DO NOT bring it up in front of a girl if you wish to Game her.

The others: Most of the population who will look down on you. They have their own perception and believe that we are manipulating women into doing what we want. Yet again, a mixture of hypocrits and those who could not care less as they are seemingly 'happy' with their life.

The PUAs: Needless to say, all of them will be very happy tofind a fellow PUA in field. A word of advice though, unless you know the fellow PUA, don't play with his set (unless its an unspoken rule of combat).

Prince.

I honestly dont see any good in telling a chick about it. If you've developed game through the PUA's just enjoy it, use it to your advantage and keep it to yourself and those who you know you can trust. Telling a girl about it is just setting your self up for trouble, unless we're talking about some freaky girl who gets off on such a thing (but i imagine those are rare).

I just find that as the PUA community grows internationally more and more women are becoming aware of the methods employed by PUA's. It is usually presented in the mainstream media as an activity practiced by sleaze bags and hardcore players who want to bang as many girls in as short a time as possible.

I watched a show called 'The Mentalist' the other night and there was a PUA on it who was portrayed in this cliched, stereotypical light. This is the type of skewed image that is being presented so there is also that level of ignorance to contend with. But I agree it is probably wise to adopt the belief that a good magician never reveals his tricks.

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Here's how my boy does it:
He doesn't actually call himself a PUA until he's known a girl for a fairly long time and has gauged her receptiveness to it. He also never uses terms like HB and k-close around the girl.

The problem here is it feels pretty dehumanizing to be called an HB (especially if you add a number rating her attractiveness) and to have an interaction you had with someone summed up in an acronym? That's not something girls, or guys, would like.

Put yourself in her shoes, what would you think?

Cinnamon

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with shows like CSI, Dr Phil and the other few prime times ones that have used PuA in there plots as evil people that pray on women its not surprising that we are label short of criminals.

With anything out there that gives bad publicity and thats all anyone knows, of course they are going to think its bad. Personally i know who i am and what i do, im confident enough to politely raise my middle finger at anyone that tries to tell me im something im not.

Then again the world still is flat after all...

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