Hey people well im going to the club 2morrow and well i want to get some tips before i go... well i have gone to the club b4 but its been as an AFC i bearly started the game and im learning about it and well my past experinces in the club haven't been all that great... well heres one of the most common situation i find myself into in the club...Im 16 so its like a club where there is hot HB's around and well they get all freaky they mainly dance freaky music like you grind on them so approching aint that hard u get behind them and if they feel somone behind them they dance if they turn around and look at u and keep on dancing well ur in... wat i want to know is wat do i do next after they have complied to dance with me...b/c most of the time they dance with u but if u stick around 2 long they leave but u cant really use a time constrainer in this situation...so wat do yall sugest i do next... there is a lot of kino involved when ur dancing like this but u cant really talk or go for a k close.... so do i like whisper in her ear a opener... and if so which one and if not what should i do or say.... plz help and thanks in advance..

Here's my two cents:

Make sure you have an opener (or five) ready before going to the club! Trying to make something up on the spot is doomed to fail Check the Approach section in this forum and pick out a few openers.

Remember the time constraint! This is damn important, as it removes the whole "Damn, is this guy gonna hang around all night?"-mentality from the chicks mind.

Personally I feel the dancefloor is a trap. It's (near) impossible to talk because of the music, and a chick grinding you on the dancefloor is not an IOI. Chicks love being a tease, and the dancefloor is a socially acceptable venue where they can act "slutty" without getting stick for it. Unless you're a good dancer (and I mean GOOD!), avoid the dancefloor.

Oh, and the most important thing: HAVE FUN! Enjoy yourself, laugh, smile and have a great time!

Good luck buddy

I disagree with the above post, don't avoid the dancefloor. It's really easy to dominate the dancefloor if you know what you're doing, because every other guy out there has no idea what he's doing.

When approaching, do NOT just run up and start grinding her, that's the #1 mistake guys make. Instead walk over confidently (note: she should see you approach), grab her hand, and pull her in to your body. Sometimes you will get rejected (they will take their hand away), but the success rate is definitely much better than if you just ran up and started dancing.

The #2 mistake guys make is this 'hands on the hips and follow' bullshit. Men lead. You make her follow what you're doing, and spin her when you want to dance front-to-front instead of back to back, etc.

As far as kissing and all that goes, it's the same as regular game, you gotta escalate. When you first start dancing, hands on hips/shoulders. Then those hands start to move to more arousing areas. Then just start touching your forehead to hers, etc, etc. Eventually you can either make out right there while dancing, or you can grab her hand and pull her somewhere else in the club.

Oh, and make sure you're looking, smelling, and feeling great when you go out

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I think this depends on personal game. Quite frankly, I hate having canned openers because what if have a few in your head and then none fit the situation or scene? I find it weird to be in a club where people go to dance and party and instead of doing just that you are running around like a chicken without a head asking people about jealous girlfriends.

I think impromptu openers are the best to use once you are comfortable with your game and have some experience in field. I will say I am guilty of using canned openers in the past, but from experience, I have come to favor being impromptu.
One reason the dance floor is considered a trap is because a girl grinding with you is not necessarily an IOI. She is there to have fun and dancing is harmless - you are both dancing, so why not dance together? If you approach a girl on the floor, have fun with her, but do not be disappointed if she doesn't follow you off the floor if you try to pull her or she walks away after a while.

It's not a trap if you control the situation. Take a girl to the dance floor and it's fine. Go to the dance floor to express you're the life of the party and to have fun. Go ahead and meet a girl on the floor and see where it goes. As much as I said dancing is not an IOI, you can still pull it; maybe run into her a bit later and strike up a conversation.
Not entirely true. Sure good dancers will get recognized, but wouldn't you notice if some dude was out there not giving a sh!t and dancing around like a monkey having the time of his life. Not saying to do that, but it will get you noticed. I've seen guys do that at clubs on my campus and girls think it's hilarious... some even go up to him and have a goofy 'dance off'. He's not out there being serious, he's just messing around. Humor is a good quality to have and people like being around that.

I agree with ^^ wholeheartedly. You don't have to know how to dance to pull girls on the dance floor. You do, however, need to be having a really, really great time!

My friends worked out a dance they all did together. I forget what they called it, might as well have been the "Gardeners Dance". They all have 'duties'. One looks like he's carrying bags of seed on his shoulders, cuts them open, shakes out the seed. One starts a lawnmower, sometimes needing help from a friend to tinker with it, and mows the dance floor. Another weed eats, another uses a leaf blower, blowing all his friends around.

It's very high energy. They have a blast, look silly as hell, and get AMOGed to no end by betas, but to everyone else, they're the best thing that happened that night.

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Thanks IceMan and Vegas, those are some interesting points about dancefloors I haven't thought about. I guess I've just had bad experiences with dancefloors before

I do agree when those have said you don't have to be a good dancer to hit the dance floor. I know how to dance, but pretending you cant, can seduce manya broad....Allow me to share some experience

I just moved to New Jersey from Brooklyn, and my friends from Long Island (my hometown) came to the dirty Jer-z to visit. We agreed that our goal would be, to "own the dancefloor". Now I know how to dance, Vinnie aka Vunsunta and Joe Hoose aka Ho Juice cannot, at all, whatsoever. So be it! The idea was, once they were comfortable, we'd start moving to the floor. I got a couple drinks in them, buzzed, and spent the time trying to loosen up my two men so theyd be having a good time, genuinely. They took notice of the ladies who were strewn about the dancefloor, havin grindparties in front of an entire wlal of guys who were holding their drinks in front of them (never do this as it acts like a barrier between you and the world, shows discomfort). None of these tools were getting in on it. Oh did I mention we were wearing fake beards, suit jackets and long blonde whigs? This is typical of my friends and I, and have one that for many years to entertain ourselves, not women. It plays to our advantage though.

So my men are smiling and confident, they had no idea i was setting them up to attract women to them, as they have terrible luck with them. I move to an open spot, and start dancing to the beat to open space for them to join me, all the guys are scowling upon me of course. I move to the beat and take wide steps so people start moving, as i said, to make room. It also served as me marking my spot, and the women noticed i was here to have fun, with or without them. Then Vunsunta and Ho Joose came and i start doing the sprinkler, a classic dancing "no no" with a huge smile on my face as they laughed. Then Ho Joose started with the robot, incredibly off-beat, which didnt matter because 2 women responed by following with their interpretations of the robot. I acknowledged them with a smile, and kept doing whatever obnoxious dance moves i wanted, making sure only to try and entertain my two friends. We were all having fun, and we were then surrounded by women who were wanting in on our terrible dancing. As most of the men scowled on the side, there were a few random guys who saw us, and joined us in our horrendous convulsing, all with big smiles. It made us icons for the night, and everyone love/hated us. Either way we got strong reactions, all because we wanted to have fun. Next thing you know Vunsunta and Ho Joose had picked up women without even realizing they games them. I explained to them, that they were acting natural, and thats how its done. They have a new perspective on things and rest assured that when we go out, owning the dancefloor is our main priority.

When you own it, all others who come on, look to your approval to be there, an when someone who can dance better comes and tries to show you up, all you have to do, is dance worse, entirely on purpose...and people will know you ae there for your own amusement. Thats sexy. I fondled (my word for hook up) 3 women that night, Vinnie and Joe got their as well. Closing was natural for them, that night.

I hope this helps you out brother, have fun, for you.