If the girl(s) arn't very social what should I say that could get a conversation started without them thinking I'm wierd for switching topics from what I used in the opener?

Okay, here is the thing. You are thinking very "logically" like a guy. Start thinking a little more "emotionally" like a woman. I'm not saying this to offend you or anything it's just the way men think. But if you really think about it it's not a big deal.

People have random thoughts all the time. Have you ever been driving down the road maybe to go get a burger or something and have a completely random thought like; I need to pay the cable bill? People have random thoughts constantly, because of this. I use this very simple transition statement.

"Oh that reminds me..." What you say after that doesn't matter too much. You want it to be interesting obviously to keep the group hooked but it can litterally be anything from another opener, a routine, a story you have, a random fact, anything! That's the beauty of it, and girls totally don't ever say to me, "How'd you get on that topic?" It just happens.

Don't think about this too much..."Oh that reminds me..."

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That´s a good and easy way

wow so simple and easy...thats crazy