Ok so at work I saw a really cute girl.

I was reading a magazine in Smiths when she walked in. It was alittle obvious she was trying to get my attention as she kept hovering around me. She walked past me twice, slowly! I didn't open her. I could have so easily as I was reading a fashion mag and could have asked her opinion on a few items of clothing. But I froze! I chickened out.

Then she stood right infront of me, and started to check the mags! She was mentally beggin me to open her but my body just froze!

Then she walks out and I was kicking myself! I felt this dull fuckin ache for not talkin to her! A feeling that should be remembered incase I flake again in the future.

But then, I went on break and saw her again. She clocked me twice and smiled. I had to approach her so I did!

I walked behind her, got infront of her a few steps and opened with such a crap line. Something like 'Its so rare to see an asian girl in this terminal. Its like they're banned to fly from here,' She said maybe because they realised how crappy the shops are here. So I get talking to her.

She was flying out to NZ to meet 2 friends, going to Australia and then meeting up her boyf in Bali! Was this a 'shit test'? She mentioned him twice but I ignored it. I told her I wanted to travel too and she said to come with her.

We began talkin about why she's goin there, her job, when she's back in the UK and her playing basketball. I touched her shoulder and Hi-5'ed her to escalate kino. She was keen to talk.

I think I must have got 1 IOI!

I got her email and gave her my pen coz she didnt have one. I told her that she better return it to me the next time she sees me. She agreed.

I hardly sensed any flirting like I do with other girls. I thought she was cool tho.

So any thoughts on this? Any tips?

And what do I say in my first email?

Also there's a few things I did which I thought were crap.

I asked for HER name then shook her hand.

When talking about the whole travelling thing, I said my friends are kinda lame coz they wont go with me due to them being skint!

Were these mistakes?

When we parted, we did like a partial hug. I felt she wanted to hug me.

Bump!

Sounds like your thinking into this too much. Theres no perfect answer/statement/response you can give to anything she chucks at you in the heat of the moment, youll be constantly kicking yourself about what you should of said or done afterwards...deal with what uve got and what uve already said to her =) Anyway, just chuck her a light email asking how her travels were, and if she fancies going for a few beers. simple. Oh, dont forget to mention you pen, she'll remember you by that =) Tell her it was passed down generations, just 4 a laugh.

Yeah, stop beating yerself up - let us do that
The handshake is fine. Maybe the reason for your friends being lame wasn't the best, but if you said it comically enough it would be fine. My friend who's a natural always goes for a kiss on the cheek when parting.

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Yeh u guys are right.

I'm being an idiot